Monday, July 28, 2008

gimme somebody who iz crazy!!!

Sometimes you gotta dig deep, when problems come near
Don't fear things get severe for everybody everywhere
Why do bad things happen, to good people?
Seems that life is just a constant war between good and evil
The situation that I'm facin, is mad amazin
to think such problems can arise from minor confrontations
Now I'm contemplatin in my bedroom pacin
Dark clouds over my head, my heart's racin
Suicide? Nah, I'm not a foolish guy
Don't even feel like drinking, or even gettin high
Cause all that's gonna do really, is accelerate
the anxieties that I wish I could alleviate
But wait, I've been through a whole lot of other shit, before
So I oughta be able, to withstand some more
But I'm sweatin though, my eyes are turnin red and yo
I'm ready to lose my mind but instead I use my mind
I put down the knife, and take the bullets out my nine
My only crime, was that I'm too damn kind
And now some skanless motherfuckers wanna take what's mine
But they can't take the respect, that I've earned in my lifetime
And you know they'll never stop the furious force of my rhymes
So like they say, every dog has it's day
And like they say, God works in a mysterious way
So I pray, remembering the days of my youth
As I prepare to meet my moment of truth

Guru from GangStarr (Moment of Truth)

I found this article online the other day. I found it amusing. It made me we really like the crazy women/men more than we do the ones that have a good head on their shoulders. I dunno. I really think that most of us want someone who is "drama free". But this article did make me think...and laugh. It was written by a woman about a man but you can flip the script and view it through the eyes of a man. You be the judge. Hollatchaboi!!!

Men Really do Love Mad Women

by Dervedia Thomas

First, let me clarify what I mean by mad.

I'm talking about all those complicated women like extreme neat freaks, germa-phobes, weight-obsessed; just women with weird hang ups. Let's not leave out the high maintenance women in this definition either.

You all know these women and you know they're not single.

I've been developing this theory in my head for some time but always rejected the notion that women have to play games like Vivica Fox in the movie "Two Can Play at That Game" until I read the book by widely featured author Sherry Argov called, "Why Men Love Bitches."
Argov explains that it's not really about looks or intelligence as we women have been conditioned to believe, it's the ability to create intrigue that attracts the opposite sex.

It is the mental challenge that these women are able to create by simply not giving a damn.

According to Argov, nice girls cook dinner for their man early in the relationship while the girl they decide to stay with makes them microwave popcorn snack and they have to work their way up to a TV dinner. Nice girls get ready early for a date while the "dream girls," as she calls them, make men wait 15 to 20 minutes.

Argov might be on to something. Ask any man if he hates it when his girl talks or whines about being bored during the game and they'll be like, "Yeah dawg." None of them would say, "Well, my girlfriend doesn't do that"


Because those girls are single! Men like Mad Women! Deal with it!


pink said...

what the hell do yall REALLY want?! I mean this is all just a mystery to me and im really tryna figure this shit out!! i first?!!

Beautifully.Conjured.Up said...

My girlfriends and I were just talking about that. For some reason, men want that woman who won't take no shit, vocal, and can't be tamed at times...

...the same thing women want...

...if you ask me, humans in general are crazy...

dessex said...

man you couldn't be more on point with this one. I think that men sorta like that type of stuff...or we must be crazy. We love for women to give us a hard time because in all honesty I think we appreicate the love and nature of the relationship much more when those type of activities that you mention take place.

The F$%K it List said...

It's like Van Hunt Sang "I think of saving myself, but with nothing to complain about up in heaven,
what would I do".

Men and women are the same in this, love is great but you gotta have somethiing to complain about or its not really LOVE.

The Jaded NYer said...

wait- but I'm single... and who's crazier than me? or was the author not referring to the "criminally" insane? HEY! we need love, too!!

Opinionated Diva said...

I agree, but then I don't. Confusing...I know! lol

Honestly, I think crazy women find weak men. Men who will put up with their craziness. It's not too hard to find a weak man.

Opinionated Diva said...'s not too hard to find and KEEP a weak man.

I hit enter before I was finished!

12kyle said...

@ pink
men want a woman with a lil bit of sanity! lol are first! lol

@ beautifully.conjured.up
can we agree that all women are crazy (including mine)?? but there are certain levels of crazy.

and men are crazy too!

@ dessex
i know dudes that flock to women and chickenheads like this! i dunno why. they are the ones that beautifully.conjured.up is talking about.

@ The F$%K it List
i don't think that I complain. lmao!!

@ jaded santana
nobody is crazier than you. lmao!!! just kiddn

@ OD
i hear you. you definitely don't want a weak man

Kay C, The Quiet Storm said...

I would have to agree.

I was told that I was too "loyal" and the ex kept going back to the women he called crazy and those that cheated on him. WTF???

That was the first time I heard anyone can be too loyal. I guess like Chris Rock said, there has to be some drama for people to be happy. Some people need something to complain about. can keep that drama. I like blue skies and white clouds!!!!

Yes, everyone is crazy on some level, I guess mine is loyality (lol)

Tha L said...

My motto is this: EVERYBODY'S a little crazy.

Like you, kyle, I don't believe that anybody wants someone who's just crazy all the time and for no damn reason...but more so the folks who are able to balance their crazy with a little bit of sanity who are the best off. LOL!

Eb the Celeb said...

I'm mad and I like sports... WTF!!!

So now I gotta not like sports now...

I wish men would make up they damn minds!

ya'll been complaining for years about wishing ya girl will watch sports with ya... now that women are more involved... now you want them to go back to complaining about you watching the game...

I swear this dating ish is for the birds!!!

Kandi Black said...

Funny, i've always felt the exact same way as this post. Most men that i have had the displeasure of knowing really are attracted to the crazy bitches. And they be making all kinds of excuses about how much they can't stand the chick and will be all up in her face the next minute. hyprocrites...

Stew said...

man hell naw. i do not like mad women. i do not like all the little strange things that "mad" women do. that means i gotta change up how i operate to makes sure i do not get them all upset.

i love a woman who can cook, especially if she can cook better than me. i hate it when someone is late because it makes me miss the PREVIEWS at the movies.

i TOTALLY disagree with this

Keisha "Kitten" Isaacs said...

Hey Brother!

I noticed a long time ago..that my friends who are quite complicated...or plain ole mean...always have some dude up in their faces.....

I personally think we just have a bunch of folks walking around here in need of some mass that we have MORE secure...faithful...strong...people...and less confusion in relationships!!!

Darius T. Williams said...

Yup - so I can't comment on this one. - LOL

A Go Bytch said...

I think the bottom line is that everyone likes a challenge especially men!

~Ms. Moore~ said...

I totally agree that all humans have issues. It doesn’t matter your race, age, creed or color just crazy straight across the board!!!
Yes I am single so I guess I’m not the crazy chick with a weak man. I won’t apologize because I like sports and I wait until the 7th inning stretch, half-time or the end of the match to get a quickie!!! I’m an old fashioned woman that likes to cook and clean for her man, and any man who can’t appreciate that can get ta steppin’.
I dated a guy who had horror stories of women cutting up, burning or giving away his clothes. The scary part was that he spoke of this thing with honor. It was then that I thought I can’t be the one for him. And I was right because we have long since separated. If I have to shoot you to show you that I love you I’m not the one for you. Vengeance is mine says JEHOVAH! I truly believe “Let go and let GOD”.

Mizrepresent said...

Yep, to some point i have to agree with the lady...i've seen men chase after and deal with the craziest of women, and yet they just couldn't leave them alone...adding up my list. First Clnmike said "we had to be needy", now, this says "we have to be crazy". What else y'all want dammit! I with Eb, dating is for the birds.!

Kieya said...

this is true.

men love that crazy tornado type mess.

people say they don't want drama, but secretly they love it

Smarty Jones said...

Damn, here I was thinking that as long as I stay drama-free, in the kitchen and not annoy a dude while he's watching the game that I could possibly be the best girlfriend in the world.
Apparently, I was wrong - as sin. Maybe I couldn't keep my ex- interested because I'm boring him by being drama-free and making sure his ass was full.
Hmmmm, maybe I'll stop cooking and start nagging. But I'll tell you what I won't do, stop watching football. A dude can kiss my ass on that one. I've got to see my Panthers!

The Flyyest said...

i had that pic on my myspace page for the longest!!!!

i love that pic!!

im crazy (well going crazy) and i cant find no one!!! i like to act like im in control and then a dude put me in check right quick...hahahahah

is that crazy!!!!

CapCity said...

WHY iz IT that the Brother I KEEP cursing out & embarrassing in front of his boyz can't get enough of me? When I HATE going NUTZ (but this bama bringz it OUTTA me - wit his simple azz)!! LOL!

I really don't like drama ... why won't he leave me alone???? LOL!

dejanae said...

i might subscribe to that theory except for the fact that im bout as crazy as u can get and aint nobody tryna put up with me

12kyle said...

@ Kay C, The Quiet Storm
Nuffin wrong with loyalty!

@ L
You gotta balance the craziness. Haaaa

@ Eb the Celeb
LMAO @ u!!! You know that we've had this talk before

@ kandi black
"Most men that i have had the displeasure of knowing really."


@ Stew
I hear you bruh. I wanna "outcook" my woman, too!

@ keisha the kitten
Sometimes chaos will draw people closer.

@ Darius

@ A Go Bytch
Sooooooooooo true!

12kyle said...

@ Ms Moore
Pleaaaase don't shoot nobody

@ Miz
You know that we don't know what we want. But neither do y'all. LOL

@ Kieya
Some men secretly love it...others openly love it

@ Smarty Jones
Time for you to "ack" a fool! LMAO!!! Classic

@ Flyyest
Lil sis...after reading several of your posts...I KNOW that you are crazy

@ CapCity
Why he gotta be a bama? LOL

@ dejanae
Yes! U r krazy!

Brad said...

I had one of those. Reason I say had is because I tamed her.....then married her. LMAO.

Oh, she's a real good girl now. Gotta go....that's her calling.

Torrance Stephens - All-Mi-T said...

say it aint so lol

Ms. Jones said...

Damn why is dating so complicated lol...better yet, why is it a game, why can't it be as simple as two individuals being themselves from the get go and whatever happens, happens????

LeNoir Tyrannical said...

I think men jus like good lovin Wild style lol It's the passion we all crave.

MysTery said...


Nice piece at the beginning.

Blah Blah Blah said...

I did a post about The Crazy Bitch...
I was telling "my friend" about my friend who keeps going back to the chick that is crazy and not good for him...but he just can't seem to break himself free...
Then my friends reply is...
"you must get that all the time!"

Umm, dude...did you just call me The Crazy Bitch...

Anonymous said...


Looking for help and hope this is the right place.

I have had significant success finding and dadting great Asian Women using this [url=]site[/url].

However I'm still looking for "the one" and wonder if anyone have any good tips on where I should look.