i'm not single. i haven't been single in a long time. i remember telling my boy jfresh..."stay single, bruh...less hassle." i was joking at the time. however, i've learned that the dating game aint the same as it was when ole 12kyle was in tha mix.
i'm friends with dudes who are single. they are all what society would deem as a "good catch". you know...single, college educated, no kids, good job (with benefits...lol), and all around good dudes. i'm also friends with several women who are possess those same qualities. you know..."wifey material". nevertheless, i make it a point not to try to play "match maker" with people. just b/c kevin is single and tonya is single too...shouldn't mean that i should be the one to put them together. however, i may make sure that they end up in the same room. but that's it. the dating scene aint what it used to be. it can be scary at times.
saturday, i got a phone call from my boy gee. gee is a good dude. he possesses those above attributes and he lives here in atlanta. women think he's cute.
a week ago, me and gee went to a surprise birthday party for my boy, erv. while at the house party, gee met a woman named pam. she seemed to be nice. she was cool, intelligent, college educated...etc. well, after the evening they exchanged phone numbers. pam called gee the very next day to talk. and the day after that...and the day after that...and the day after that.
friday night they went to the movies. the night ended with gee telling her that he'd call her tomorrow (saturday). well...pam flips the script. she calls gee at 8am on saturday morning. who does that? then she calls him on his home phone number!!! stop! that's a huge mistake b/c he never gave her his home phone number. he later finds out that she looked up his home phone number on the internet. huh? are you kiddin me? that's crazy!!! he hung up the phone after he heard her voice. and she calls back immediately!!! this time she leaves a long detailed message...
"hey, gee. this is pam. you know...we met at erv's birthday party last week. you can call me back at this number (404)......."
it's almost like she left the message hoping that another female would hear it.
the crazy thing about this story is that gee didn't even touch her! lmao!!! he texted me today and said that she has called him 9 times since saturday. she is emailing him at work and everything! he just hasn't responded.
i guess she can't take a hint. and it's not always just the women. eb the celeb just had a similar situation, too.
the moral of the story is...be careful...you never know how crazy or bothersome a person can be. lmao
your thoughts? has this ever happened to you? hollatchaboi!!!!!