Tuesday, February 23, 2010

it starts here...

For me...it starts with the eyes...that's what draws me in...the main attraction of a woman. If she's got the eyes, I'm all in.

The next thing is the smile. A pretty smile has me hooked.

When you look at the opposite sex...what feature starts it for you?


Smarty P. Jones said...

Honestly, it's all about what comes out of his mouth. Usually, if you're an idiot, it shows within five minutes of speaking to someone.
Intelligence for me is a turn-on. If a dude can teach me something, tell me something I didn't know or further explain something to me, he can probably get it.
I've tried to date a dumb dude, let's just say it didn't work out. If I have to work hard to dumb down the conversation, I am not the woman for you.
After that, it's the grill. I love a dude with big lips and pretty, straight, white teeth.
I don't want much. :)

Anonymous said...

It starts with the mouth, I love beautiful smile, and there is no sense in smiling if the teeth are jacked.

A smile pretty most men up and it says a lot about their hygiene.


Otis said...

I think initially, I notice a womans smile... Then for some reason, I automatically look at her feet, lol. Hell, sometimes, I notice her feet 1st. Feet and shoes should be nice, no hooves, lol.

Tyrone said...

I think I agree with Kyle - eyes then lips (if I'm not trying to get busted checking her out).

But then Smarty is right - if she can hold an intelligent conversation, that's more of a turnon than anything else.

My college years were spent meeting dumb, beautiful women. I was taught that beauty fades, so I paid attention.

Mizrepresent said...

Physically a great smile, then a warm personality, intelligence and wit. Well, i have a thing for eyes too!

12kyle said...

@ Smarty
Intelligence is a must! Nuffin worse than a person who is attractive but is as smart as a skateboard

@ CdnGurl
LoL @ jacked up teeth

@ Otis
You just made me think about the scene in Boomerang. Haaaaa

@ Tyrone
Yessur! Now, you and I are not speaking as the married men that we are...just in general. LOL

Beautiful but dumb women in college...man you aint neva lied

@ Miz
The eyes have it! LOL

rashida said...

Nice lips, pretty teeth, big bright eyes, and strong arms. After that it's all intellect.

The physical draws me in, but the mental keeps me around.

The Jaded NYer said...

I've been known to fall for some nice eyes and lips myself, but it stops there if their skin is looking like friend chicken. Dudes need to learn about skincare if they wanna roll with me! It's not just for women, you know. Healthy skin shows you care about yourself and your well-being and that speaks volumes.

Ricardo said...

@tyrone Do I really need to answer this one? Hint they come in pairs..

I Kiid I kiid.. .sorta.

Ok, but on the real - Smile, hair, personality. That's pretty much how I met my wife. She flashed her pearly whites, then did the Pantene hair toss, and I was hooked. Once I finally manned up enough to talk to her, she was awesome to talk to and she laughed at my unfunny jokes. WIN!

She's also the most caring, empathetic, and sympathetic person I know. Sometimes it's the love in someone's heart that shines through on the external.

I can vouch what Tyrone said is the TRUTH.. We went to college together. Airheads doesn't even begin to describe the scene. There were some smart ones, but they were overwhelmingly drowned out by the dumb ones. Particularly because they was home studying so they could graduate when the dumb ones were partying with us. It's a shame I didn't have more fun in college. But I started dating my wife junior year :-/

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xxxx said...

the mouth and then the finger nails.. i love a pretty white smile with some juicy lips.. finger nails has to be clean and hands nice and lotioned... if your fingernails are dirty the conversation ends right where it begins...

Kingsmomma said...

Lips, teeth and fingernails (think poetic Justice Janet Jackson and Tupac.)

MzInspiredMind81 said...

The smile is first and then the eyes. I agree w/ Smarty. I don't care how fly you are, if you open your mouth and spit bs, it's a certified wrap for you.

BrokN_RecorD said...

I notice the eyes first, like is there a twinkle there, do I see hidden pain, etc. The windows to the soul tell me everything I need to know. Then I look at his smile and how he carries himself. I need a confidant man to compliment the Amazon that I am.

Reina said...

Smile & lips than arms. I judge someone's overall health and hygiene regimen by their teeth. If I find them lacking, I go on my way.

I then check out the arms. I love a physically fit man and I judge this by the arms.

Tha L said...

Its the eyes for me too, Kyle. And what he does with them...eye contact is mandatory. If a man can't look me in the eye, it's a wrap.

ShellyShell said...

I look at the eyes but I'm a sucker for beautiful teeth and a nice smile. BUT if you open up your mouth and dumbness comes out....it's a wrap. I don't care how fine he is!

Kay C, The Quiet Storm said...

Had to put some thought into this one and I still can't explain it.

There is something about a way a man carries himself. Confidence without cocky-ness, confortable in his skin that attracts me. Good looking to me may be the same thing that turns other women's heads but he has to be able to keep my attention.

The current 'center of KayC's storm' is beautiful but he is his own person. He is a creative mind, artsy, silly and loves to laugh. That is what sparked and kept my interest.

Jazzy said...

I'm so inconsistent...it's not just ONE thing for me. Sometimes just the smell of a dude will draw me in. Other times it's his walk, his stance, the look in his eyes...just depends.

E.M.H. said...

Smile and eyes start it off. That's how he got my attention, then his personality, heart, and intelligence matched. I had fallen in love and before I knew it I was all in . . . LOL :-)

Rashan Jamal said...

Is anyone gonna keep it real and say "that phat ass?" Me neither. LOL

I love lips.

Keith said...

This is crazy, but it starts with a smile for me..Something about the way a woman does her mouth just does it for me..Don't ask why. that's for the therapists to work on..lolol.

Beautifully.Conjured.Up said...

Call me weird, but I love a man with nice shoulders...I've always been into football players for that reason {blushing}.

Stesha said...

My husband hooked me with his smile. It could light up the sky!

Hugs and Mocha,

Mlvlatina said...

I always look at eyes as well, they are truly the window to the soul.

and1grad said...

Boobs, face, ass...in that order.

Ricardo said...

@and1 - I knew I could count on you to keep it real.. lol

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Redbonegirl97 said...

I go for the smile, then the eyes, then the arms and then that butt, because I have met some many who lack it, it's a giddy moment when I meet a guy with a nice one.


The F$%K it List said...

I've always been a sucker for height, Tall men will always grab my attention. Then I look at the shoes, shoes leaning I'm leaving hahahah.

Don said...

Her eyes. Her smile. Her walk. Her intelligence. Her conversation. Her sense of humor and spirituality.

For some reason I look at her fingernails to see if there's any dirt beneath.

PCD (Pretty Circle Drawer) said...

ooooh, im late...but ditto to smarty jones. any physical attractiveness is a plus, but definitely not the first thing i notice. now, if he's not stuck on stupid, then i notice the grill/breath, height, then lastly skin

SimoneSweets said...

For me, its all about the smile and teeth, if they are jacked up, its a no go!!! lol!!