Thursday, April 1, 2010


She gets a glimpse of Shawn and she likes that.
He 2 ways her, so she writes back.
Smiley faces after all of her phrases.
Either she the one or I'm caught in the matrix

Jay Z (Excuse Me Miss)

Have ever met a man/woman who are into the new age technology?

I mean the technology of the new age relationship

Now, there’s a new online annoyance — the person who doesn’t want to meet but is all too happy to e-mail, text, tweet, IM, or scrawl on your Facebook wall indefinitely. They don’t want a real relationship as much as its virtual doppelganger.

Welcome to the world of the “elationship.”

Elationship's are all over the place. You might be in one and NOT even know it.

Have you dealt with a man/woman who wants to SOLEY communicate via everything else but the phone??

One woman described it as...

First he e-mails, then he begins texting all day. Then he’s guilting me out for not being available when he calls. Then I don’t hear from him for a week. Then he’s back and wants to know if there’s anything new in my personal life. Then he starts playing the hurt puppy and sending passive-aggressive texts. I finally texted him and said, ‘I think we’re having a miscommunication.’ ”

Makes a lotta sense don't it? LOL

Lemme know what you think about elationships!

Have you had one of these? Holla at me!


Don said...

I finally texted him and said, ‘I think we’re having a miscommunication.’ ”


I've never experienced the above, only one particular moment where I have playfully enjoyed online conversation, which led to phone conversation, which led to other conversations, which led to a quiet little get together being scheduled that, coincidentally, never came into fruition.

I've only met three female bloggers (one, in passing) since I created a blog page and both were cool as a fan. Both were already involved in relationships, at the time.

Good stuff.

The Jaded NYer said...

I'm too cute to deal with all that! lol

Kingsmomma said...

Nope, haven't been in one..unless surrogates count but i think thats a whole other story

Kay C, The Quiet Storm said...

*raising hand*

Yes. The last relationship was text and im...hmmm...can I call that a relationship? He worked insane/opposite hours and it was just easier and faster to communicate that way. It grows old. Real quick!

Forgot what his voice sounded like.

Mizrepresent said...

Yes, i have had my share of that, but now looking, hoping, waiting on the real :)

Reina said...

How'd I miss this?

I don't do elationships. I have no problem meeting someone over the net, but I need real life interaction. Otherwise, you're not real to me.

Angel said...

I was in one once, although I didn't realise until he started sending me pictures of his winky and telling me how much he loved me.

But never wanted to meet offline or talk on the phone.


My friends enjoyed the photos though.

PCD (Pretty Circle Drawer) said...

ha ha ha! never even thought abt it like that. i mean, i do the techie thing, but never have done it SOLELY. well, im not in the market, but even with friends, we still speak and meet up. it sounds funny to me...

i LOVE jaded nyer's response

Redbonegirl97 said...

Umm yeah, I have had a few of those and thinking about I was the one who was doing a lot of texting. All of those "elationships" have crashed and burned.