Thursday, April 29, 2010

6 things she needs



If a woman is looking for a man, there are some things she should look for.

Then...

There are things she should NEED her man to have...


Character


Discipline


Driven


Talent


Integrity


Passion




Did you notice that I didn't mention anything about looks, money, status, etc. ?

10 comments:

*Coop* said...

I see you. Trying to slip in a little sermon. You ain't foolin us Reverend Kyle.
Or is it Deacon Kyle?

Great, GREAT point.
*waiting for other comments*

LadyLee said...

No you didn't mention that tangible stuff. It don't mean much.

And the tangible is born out of the intangible (character, integrity, etc.). A man well developed in all the characteristics you listed above is worth his weight in goal, and on his way to being successful, if he already isn't.

I was reading that a man can have ALL the looks, money, etc... but ultimately, you are marrying or dating that man's CHARACTER. Period. And that's what matters most.

Good short sermon, bruh. lol.

Kay C, The Quiet Storm said...

I agree but I am sure you already knew that.

Why?

Because looks fade, money can be attained then lost and status is well...temporary at best.

Better to look for things one can not lose or have taken away. Hard to have deep conversation or build a lasting and fulfilling life with money, looks and status. Good post...

swtstiletto said...

I thinks this is a good starter list. But please understand that the list will grow as we mature.

Redbonegirl97 said...

Perfect points. I think I may need to forward this to my boy who is having major relationship phobia issues.

Tiffany
Peace, Love and Chocolate
http://liferequiresmorechocolate.blogspot.com

The Jaded NYer said...

I won't lie to you, Kyle- I still find myself getting caught up in the aesthetics, passing up good dudes that have flaws in their looks for "eh" dudes who are FOINE.

I can't seem to get out of the shallow end of the pool, but I'm working on it.

(still...I like my man to look good- is that a crime?!)

Mizrepresent said...

Love, love, love those 6 things! Definitely what i am needing in a man.

Keith said...

Great List.....and I agree, but you're preaching to the choir here...The important thing is..do the ladies agree and understand?

Great post as always bruh...I know a few women who should read this.

E.M.H. said...

Definitely agree . . . my man needs to possess all 6 of these characteristics without a doubt!!!!!

neshia said...

my boo got all of this