Friday, June 28, 2013

off tha dome (random thoughts)


random thoughts...

thank you for still reading. i see you. you don't think i see you but i do

love him or hate him...jay z is a marketing genius

the government can "spy" on your texts, emails, and phone calls. was that REALLY a big surprise?

Eric Snowden isn't a hero nor is he a terrorist. he's somewhere in between

congrats to Lebron James and the Miami Heat. they earned the title

i can't...and won't watch any of this George Zimmerman trial

this has been a relatively mild summer thus far in Atlanta. only 2 days with temperatures over 90 degrees in the month of June! that means it's gonna be a scorcher next month

when they ask you to hold your applause at a graduation...you really should listen and hold your applause

please stop with the Lebron James vs Michael Jordan comparisons. it's not even close.


you can't front...the new jack swing era was tight!

i haven't seen Man of Steel yet. in a strange way, there's a part of me that wants to see Christopher Reeves as Superman

what's better than some home cooking from your mom??? nuffin

it's almost time for my girlfriend to come back. can't wait!!!

some people take their Instagram pics too far and too serious. you know who you are. lol

always remember...


remember the kid who would ALWAYS raise his/her hand when the teacher had a question? what happened to that kid?

at what age should girls be allowed to wear make up? i'm thinking 23 for Skyler

Paula Dean...sit down and shut up. No need for fake apologies

Aaron Hernandez...just when I think I've heard it all...you do this

there have been 28 NFL players arrested since the Super Bowl in February. i'll bet NFL Commish Roger Goddell can't WAIT for NFL training camps to start

when my homie Big Mel calls me, he always asks..."Are you cooking on the grill today?" lol. he knows that's how I get down

i don't care how many times that you go to church. just make sure that you get something out of it when you go. i do

why did the snake cross the road...i don't know...i ran over him before he could make it to the other side


still waiting on that D'Angelo album

if you're not listening to the 12 RADIO SHOW on Wednesday nights at 9pm EST...you are missing the boat

live for love and live to give love

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Wednesday, June 26, 2013

Best of 90s R&B Part 2...12 RADIO SHOW



Tune in to the 12 RADIO SHOW tonight at 9pm EST. The 12 RADIO SHOW is the most innovative and interactive show on Blog Talk Radio

Topic - Best of 90s R&B Part 2

Co-hosted by Smarty Jones and Rashan Jamal

(347)215-7162

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Wednesday, June 19, 2013

Off tha Dome (random topics)...12 RADIO SHOW


Tune in tonight at 9PM EST as the host, 12kyle, informs and entertains. Don't just listen to the show...log in to the chatroom and participate in the discussion. Don't miss it!!!

TOPIC - Off Tha Dome (random topics - current events, music, sex, sports, dating and relationships, and pop culture)

co-hosted by Mz Kayotic.

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Wednesday, June 12, 2013

Best of 90s R&B...12 RADIO SHOW



Tune in to the 12 RADIO SHOW tonight at 9pm EST

TOPIC - The Best of 90s R&B

co-hosted by Rashan Jamal & eclectik

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Tuesday, June 4, 2013

Dating and Relationships 600...12 RADIO SHOW


WHAT: 12 RADIO SHOW...Dating and Relationships 600

WHERE: www.blogtalkradio.com/12kyle
(347)215-7162

WHEN: Wednesday night (June 5th) 9pm-11pm EST on Blogtalk Radio

WHO: 12kyle & ShellyShell


WHY: You know why...so why ask?


Wednesday, May 29, 2013

Back in Tha Day Vol 5 (Childhood Memories) 12 RADIO SHOW


Tune in to the 12 Radio Show tonight at 9 pm EST

Tonight's show will be co-hosted by Mindful Naked

TOPIC - Back in Tha Day vol 5 (Childhood Memories). Join us as we discuss some of the best childhood memories. It doesn't matter if you grew up in the 70s, 80s, or 90s...you will relate to this show. Don't miss it




Wednesday, May 22, 2013

Sports Wrap Up....12 Radio Show


EVENT: 12 RADIO SHOW

WHO: Hosted by 12kyle and co-hosted by Juan

WHAT: Sports Wrap Up

WHERE: www.blogtalkradio.com/12kyle
Live Call in...(347)215-7162)

WHEN: TONIGHT! 9pm EST - 11pm EST

WHY: You know why!

Wednesday, May 15, 2013

Best Hip Hop Albums from 92 and 93


WHERE: 12 RADIO SHOW

WHAT: Best Hip Hop Albums from ' 92 & ' 93...The Chronic, Enter the 36 Chambers, Midnight Marauders, Doggystyle...and many more!!!

WHO: Hosted by 12kyle and co-hosted by Rashan Jamal & eclectik

WHEN: Tonight! 9pm - 11pm EST...on Blog Talk Radio. Live call in (347)215-7162 www.blogtalkradio.com/12kyle

WHY: Why not???


Monday, May 13, 2013

F#%k tha police




F#%k the police comin straight from the underground
A young brutha got it bad cause I'm brown
And not the other color so police think
they have the authority to kill a minority - Ice Cube (F#%k tha Police)

I don't like the police.

Never have. Never will.

I know that they are here to serve and protect. I know that they have a thankless job. I know that 99% of cops are good people. I guess I'm just a magnet for the 1% of cops that are racist assholes. Let me take you back to the summer of 1998 when a young Kyle got pulled over THREE times in ONE week for the same offense...DWB (driving while black)

SUNDAY

I was riding in the car with my boy, JFresh. We had just come from downtown Atlanta and were headed to our townhouse in nearby Marietta. We were waiting at a traffic light when we saw a cop get behind his car. As soon as we made a right turn, the blue lights came on. JFresh, who was driving a sleek black Acura Integra, was calm. He showed the officer his papers and license. The police officer NEVER said why he pulled us over. He just asked if he lived in the area because J's drivers license and license plate were both from the state of South Carolina. He told him the officer that he was a student at Georgia Tech (which was a lie). The officer let us go. All we could do was shake our heads. There was so much crime in Cobb County at the time but WE get pulled over?

WEDNESDAY

I was driving alone. I was on my way back to my apartment after leaving the movies. I was on the same street that I was on just a few days earlier. I made a right turn at the same light. Same results...blue lights! The cop was nice but never said WHY I was pulled over. I didn't ask. Didn't have to. Wrong color.





If I was old, they'd probably be a friend of me
Since I'm young, they consider me the enemy - Ice Cube (Tales from the Darkside)

FRIDAY

I left Atlanta that day and was headed to my hometown, Florence, South Carolina, for the weekend. I'm cruising down Interstate 20 with the windows down. I'm driving through Madison County (about an hour outside of Atlanta) when I see a cop "hiding" in the bushes in the median. I look at my speedometer and it's reading at "60 mph" and the speed limit is 65. I drive past the cop. He sees me and pulls out onto the highway immediately. I saw him pull onto the highway but I didn't know he was coming after me. The next thing I know...I see the blue lights...AGAIN!!! The officer asks me for my information and I give it to him. After a few minutes, he comes back and here's what he says...

Cop: "Sir, where are you headed?"

Me: "I'm headed to Florence, SC"

Cop: "Where are you coming from?"

Me: "I'm coming from Atlanta." (Why do you wanna know asshole?)

Cop: "Can you step out of the car? I'd like to search the car...if that's okay with you, sir."

Me: "Sure. If you want to search it...go ahead." (What the hell you think you gonna find fatboy?"

I step out of the car and stand in the grass as this dude looks around my Nissan Sentra (not a Bentley but a Sentra). At this point, I'm sure that SEVERAL of my civil rights have been violated.

Cop: "Can I look in your trunk?"

Me: "Yeah." (I hope you don't see the dead body back there)

I open the trunk. Nothing back there but my bag

Cop: "Sir, can I open up the bag? I have to ask first...do you have any drugs or guns in this bag"

Me: I chuckled. "No, l left them at home."

Cop: "I'm sorry to have inconvenienced you. It's just that we have lot of drug trafficking between here and Texas. We have been cracking down on it."

Me: "I would never sell drugs." 

Cop: "You are free to leave, sir. Have a good day."

I wonder what was the dead giveaway that day. Was it my hooptie? Was it the Yankees fitted hat that I had on backwards? I know what it was. And so do you. How else would somebody explain getting pulled over by cops 3 times in a week? I did what my parents always told me...1) be calm & cordial 2) always let them see your hands 3) never ride with more than 3 other black kids in a car because you WILL get pulled over.

I have 3 sons. What will I tell them about the police? I'll tell them this story as well as my other run-ins with the cops. I would like to think things will be different for them.

I doubt it.

Friday, May 10, 2013

the price of fame



I didn't ask for this. 

None of it. 

Don't get me wrong...I'm thankful for it ALL but I never asked for any of it. The road of life has many twists and turns. I'm glad that it turned in the right direction. But I didn't ask for this.

Things have changed overnight. One day you go from being a regular Joe on the street to being somebody that the whole world knows. It happened fast. Maybe too fast. I can't be regular anymore. I don't know if I'll ever get used to this "fishbowl life". Who wants to live a life where ever move that they make is tracked? I'm constantly watched and talked about it. Do I like the attention? I do...sometimes. But I miss my privacy.

I don't trust women. When I meet women, I am on the defensive. I don't know if she wants me or if she wants what I can give her. Some just want sex. Others want to have your kid so that they can sit on their ass and live off you. Naw man. That's not me and that's not how I get down. I enjoy the company of women but I keep them from getting too close. I've never been good at long term relationships so maybe it's best that I stay that way. And kids are not going to happen right now. I have a hard enough time with my dog. 

Most of the people that I meet have some type of agenda. They want something from you. It's usually money. I went from being dead broke to being a multi millionaire very fast. I've learned to tell people "no". Does that make me an asshole? I don't think so. I like to spend money but I'm trying to be smart about it. It seems like everybody has their hands in my pocket, though. My lawyers, agents, accountants, publicists...etc. I really feel like I was born to do what I do. God gave me these gifts to give to the world. I was put here to entertain. But I didn't know it'd be like this.

One day I want to...go to dinner without being photographed...go to the movies in the middle of the day...go to the club and sit in the VIP section without the stares from the haters...chill and not have my cell phone blowing up. One day I want to walk down the street and people not recognize me. 

I didn't ask for any of it. I grow tired it. Most people would chop off their arm to be in my shoes. I never thought I'd have to give up ME for this. I'm thankful but I'm tired. Really tired.

The price of fame...

Wednesday, May 8, 2013

Sports Wrap Up...12 RADIO SHOW



EVENT: 12 RADIO SHOW

WHO: Hosted by 12kyle and co-hosted by Juan

WHAT: Sports Wrap Up

WHERE: www.blogtalkradio.com/12kyle 
Live Call in...(347)215-7162)

WHEN: TONIGHT! 9pm EST - 11pm EST

WHY: You know why! 

Monday, May 6, 2013

christian vs gay



Last week, Tim Tebow was released from his job as backup quarterback of the New York Jets

A few hours later, NBA veteran Jason Collins became the first active player in major professional sports to come out of the closet.

I saw this cartoon and found it to be fitting. The sports media was often critical of Tebow when he would profess his love for God. Tebow, a devout Christian, would begin every interview by thanking God. This rubbed some people the wrong way.

It was interesting when Collins, a 7 foot 12 yr journeyman, told the world that he was gay. The media applauded him. Some even called him a hero.

Collins is no hero. Nothing is wrong with Tebow.

Maybe the sports media has "overblown" it for both men?

As fans...do we care?

More importantly...do we have the right to judge?

I don't care. And I won't judge.

Wednesday, May 1, 2013

SEX 605...12 RADIO SHOW


 


EVENT: 12 RADIO SHOW

WHO: Hosted by 12kyle and co-hosts ShellyShell & Diggame

WHAT: - Topic - SEX 605

WHERE: www.blogtalkradio.com/12kyle 
Live Call in...(347)215-7162)

WHEN: TONIGHT! 9pm EST - 11pm EST

WHY: Because I said so...that's why
!


note...if you are easily offended by hot sex talk or if you hadn't had sex in awhile and are easily bothered...you may wanna sit this one out. hahahahahahah

Monday, April 29, 2013

muzik monday...Jill Scott



Music has...and always will be a passion of mine.

I was reading some old blog posts and I came across a Muzik Monday post. I realized that I haven't done a Muzik Monday post in more than 2 yrs.

As many of you know, I'm a huge hip hop head. But I don't listen to hip hop 24/7. One of my boys told me "At some point during the day, you've gotta smooth that thang out." And I do! One of my favorite artists is Jill Scott. I first heard Jill in 2000 when she dropped her debut album, Who is Jill Scott? Words and Sounds Vol 1. It was crowned as a "neo-soul classic".




I've been a HUGE fan ever since. Jill has always impressed me with her melodic voice and crowd pleasing stage presence. I found it interesting that on her first album cover you could barely see her face. In an industry that would prefer to see skinny women, Jill wasn't a size 4 but she was...and still is very attractive to me. More importantly, she can sing better than MOST artists right now. If you compare her to Beyonce Carter or anybody else...she blows them away...literally!

Here are a few of my favorite joints from Jill that I'd like to share for your listening pleasure. Just press PLAY.


A Long Walk - a smoothed out neo-soul love song...
You're here
I'm pleased
I really dig your company
Your style, your smile,
Your peace mentality
Lord, have mercy on me
I was blind, now I can see...



Slowly Surely - Jill breaks down leaving undeserving love
I just don't know
Where i should go
So
Slowly surely
I walk away from
Self-serving
Undeserving
Constantly hurting me love
Deserting me love
You said, I said, we said
But




Crown Royal - sexual, erotic, sensual...all in 1 min 50 seconds. This song is TOO short but we love it!
Your hands on my hips pull me right back to
you, I
Catch that thrust give it right back to you,
you're
In so deep I'm breathing for you, you
Grab my braids arch my back high for
you your
Diesel engine, I'm squirting mad oil ah
Down on the floor til my speaker starts
to boil



All I - self explanatory!
Every time I close my eyes
All I dream about is makin' love
I can't even sleep at night
All I dream about is makin' love

It's just all the things I see when you're inside of me
That keeps my mind goin' crazy
I can't even think at night
All I dream about is makin' love to you



My Love - Jill speaks on a love that she lost...surprisingly. She wonders what happened and why they aren't together. "You know what it is! You know what it was." Classic line

Every time I close my eyes
All I dream about is makin' love
I can't even sleep at night
All I dream about is makin' love

It's just all the things I see when you're inside of me
That keeps my mind goin' crazy
I can't even think at night
All I dream about is makin' love to you







Sunday, April 28, 2013

still funny



This is STILL funny to me!!! Anytime I need a good laugh...I watch this video

Friday, April 26, 2013

A new CHANGE in Philadelphia



How often is it that we hear people complain about things that are NOT happening in the community and nobody does anything about it? Some people will talk but never make any changes.

Andrea Walker is not one of those people.

Both Andrea and Matthew Myles are bringing change to their hometown, Philadelphia. They have recently launched a non-profit organization called I.N.E.R.D Inc. in Philly. I've known Andrea for years and she is someone who is about to make a major impact on her city. I recently interviewed her to find out more about her new movement.

I.N.E.R.D Inc., a new, local non-profit organization plans to launch Campaign I.N.E.R.D. An innovative, thought provoking, empowering, dual educational mentorship and resource initiative, whose “goal is to focus on empowering youth and young adults in our local communities, to nurture, mold and develop a superior understanding of the importance of intelligence,” says Co-founder Matthew Myles. They will begin first by implementing their Sisters Sittin Pretty mentorship program this June 1, 2013. This program will target inner city youth girls ages 6-16. Sisters Sittin Pretty will encourage sisterhood and foster self-respect and self-esteem. It will explore every platform from the controversial conversations that most parents dread having, such as, safe sex, rape, peer pressure, abstinence, and teen pregnancy to life skills, team building, leadership skills, bullying, to high-school and college preparation. The girls will engage in meaningful, thought provoking, and age appropriate activities which will help them develop self-respect and empower them with a core understanding that intelligence is “cool”.



Founders and Philadelphia natives Andrea Walker and Matthew Myles believe that, by getting the necessary resources to the youth, you equip them with the tools required to lead a successful and productive lives as upstanding citizens of the communities. However, deprive a child of knowledge and engage them with substandard community resources and they become the criminals that bombard our media outlets with hate crimes, gang on gang violence and other senseless acts that rip through the communities. “They can’t do better if they don’t know better”, says Co-founder of I.N.E.R.D Inc., Andrea Walker. For Myles, I.N.E.R.D stands for I Never Ever Rely on Dummies an acronym he coined three years ago while living in the inner cities of DC, but for Walker, I.N.E.R.D stands for Imagine New Emotions Rediscovering Dreams, an acronym that speak volumes to her personal struggle with her mother’s diagnosis of HIV. Any way you look at it, I.N.E.R.D stands for a change and the founders of I.N.E.R.D plan to do just that beginning in Philly’s own backyard with hopes of one day operating on a national level. 

Sisters Sittin Pretty mentor ship program is just the first of many aids to be implemented by I.N.E.R.D Inc. The organization is also in the process of developing a Soup Kitchen in Camden, New Jersey, as well as a Financial Literacy Program, a Global Language Program, and Trade/Organizer Blend Workshops which will include youth prevention/intervention programs. Walker plans to partner with local AIDS activist to launch a HIV/AIDS Activist outreach and Support Program which will be a dedication to her mother. She plans to make children aware of the epidemic and provide counseling and support for them and their family members, something she wishes would have been provided for her as she struggled with the harsh reality that her mother was battling the disease. Walker says “no longer should people be in fear of the disease HIV/Aids, just like they aren’t about Cancer. Its 2013, it’s not taboo anymore. People contract this disease every day and many times, they are unaware.” 

1. What made you decide to start this venture in Philadelphia? 

We were all raised in Uptown Philadelphia and most of our team still lives in the city so starting this venture to give back to the city that has molded so much of our lives was an easy decision. That, along with the cities painfully obvious lack of community involvement and the crisis that we see our youth struggling to overcome when it comes to such issues as education or other significant resources. This was an answer for that calling. 

2. What separates your non-profit organization from others that may be
somewhat similar? 

What separates us is that we are a collective of young urban professionals who have achieved different degrees of success in our individual pursuits but we all intend to push forward together. Very often, people focus on themselves and create non-profits after they have “made it.” We feel that success is a journey rather than a destination and we intend to share that journey with our community as well as one another.

3. What has been the biggest challenge in launching this movement? 

The biggest challenge has been coordinating everyone’s schedules as we are all very active, busy people with responsibilities and goals of our own. Other than that, our shared passion for our cause has made the process relatively smooth. What has been the biggest reward? There are two. The first is being surrounded by such powerful, positive, energetic young people. The second reward comes from knowing that we are going to make a difference in the lives of families and children. We are creating a legacy that will live beyond us. We are creating something much bigger than anyone of us alone could ever do.

4. Where do you see your organization being five years from now? 

In five years, we see ourselves running full after school and summer programs that will provide safe, nurturing environments for at risk youth. We see ourselves providing our community members with information that will have a lasting impact on their lives and the lives of their children. Such information will come by way of empowering them with basic to in-depth understanding and ability to manage their finances, to realizing the strength and power that we as a people possess, if we stand together. We see I.N.E.R.D Inc. as a bridge in the disconnect between the generation that once lacked intelligence for fear of scrutiny and the generation who will possess and use it as effortlessly as texting on a cell phone. We see ourselves forming lasting relationships with like-minded organizations such as The Boys and Girls Club, Blues Babe Foundation and Black Girls Rock. We see ourselves providing scholarships for deserving young people who might otherwise not be able to continue their education. At the VERY least, we will be a strong, consistent positive influence on our communities. We may very well save some lives.




While I.N.E.R.D. Inc. is the nonprofit sector of the brand, I.N.E.R.D is clearly not limiting themselves to any one area of expertise. I.N.E.R.D is a one stop shop. From a dope t-shirt and hoodie line to a “feminine, flirty, and sexy line” known as Tulip, by I.N.E.R.D’s own fashion designer Amber Cuff. There is also their music division which is spearheaded by the one and only Verso a.k.a Verse Mega, “The Voice of Reason,” “Dignity in the Flesh,” “An Emcee’s Emcee,” Jamaica-born, Philadelphia-bred lyricist. With unremarkable talent, Verso works alongside some of I.N.E.R.D’s best new and upcoming artist such as Uptown Tone and Friends and the No Names. Although the clothing line and the music division are platforms for the designers and artist, these entities also create opportunities for youth in the areas of internships and shadowing. Members of the mentorship programs are granted a behind the scenes look at how music is created, what goes on in the studio, to live performances, as well as a day in the life of a fashion designer. There are many events that can easily turn into a field trip for the mentees at any given moment.

I.N.E.R.D Inc. is on the move to take back its community. It is calling for any and everyone who has a voice to join them. They believe strongly in their youth and will stop at nothing to empower them with the message that intelligence is cool with the hopes of planting a seed to grow and nurture upstanding citizens of our communities. To learn more about their efforts, donate, or purchase a t-shirt, or to sponsor a child please visit their website at www.inerdinc.com

Media Inquiries:

Andrea Walker

Co-Founder and CEO

I.N.E.R.D Inc.

www.inerdinc.com

andreawalker@inerdinc.com




Wednesday, April 24, 2013

1994 - A Great Year in Hip Hop...12 RADIO SHOW


Tune in to the 12 RADIO SHOW tonight at 9pm EST.

TOPIC - 1994 - A Great Year in Hip Hop

Join me and my co-hosts...Rashan Jamal and eclectik as we discuss the hip hop in the year of 1994. That year brought us groundbreaking classic albums like


NaS - Illmatic



Biggie Smalls - Ready to Die


Outkast - southernplayalisticadillacmuzik


We will discuss these albums as well as the countless others that made hip hop dope in 1994. You don't want to miss this show. You can call in with any questions or comments for us (347)215-7162

www.blogtalkradio.com/12kyle

Monday, April 22, 2013

your favorite athlete is gay...




Your favorite athlete is gay...

Lebron James is a queer...

Peyton Manning is a fag...

Derek Jeter is a homo...

Danica Patrick is a dyke...

Yeah...your favorite athlete is gay. The cat is out of the bag. Now what? How do you feel? Does it even matter?

My hope is that you would say that it DOESN'T matter. Personally, I could care less if my favorite athlete (or anybody else for that matter) is gay. That's their personal choice. It's none of my business who these people sleep with. And who I sleep with is none of their business. Honestly, I think the above mentioned athletes are straight. We assume that they are. But we don't know because we don't know them personally. And it really doesn't matter if they were. Not to me at least.

There has been some discussion in the sports world that there are "as many as FOUR current NFL players who may come out of the closet." They should! Now may be the best time to do it. I think most people would be willing to accept a gay teammate in their locker room. Truth be told, there are already gay players in all major sports. If teams don't think they have gay players on their roster, then they are delusional. The numbers suggest that they are there. I think it would be a great thing. Come out of the closet. Be who you are. Anybody with an open mind would be ok with it. I know there are some who will say "well, in the Bible it says blah, blah, blah." Kill that noise. I believe in the Bible but it was written a gazillion years ago and everybody's interpretation of it is different. (I wish I had time to talk about how "church folk" talk about inclusion of all people but are quick to look down on gays and lesbians...but that's not a part of today's discussion). 

Recently, there has been some pictures to surface online of NFL player Kerry Rhodes and his personal "assistant" on vacation. While Rhodes has denied being gay, the pictures of him sharing intimate hugs and laughs with this man could suggest otherwise. Would there be backlash if he came out? Not really. I think Rhodes...and any other player would feel relief that they no longer had to hide their secret. 

We are all different and we all do different things. If we worried more about ourselves and not about other peoples personal business...things would be much better. 

Wednesday, April 17, 2013

12 RADIO SHOW





Women vs Men (the differences and understanding each other) co-hosted by Crys Renee and Chantay. 

Join us as we discuss the differences between women & men. This show will give you a entertaining and funny look at the opposite sex. You don't want to miss this!

(347)215-7162
www.blogtalkradio.com/12kyle

Wednesday, April 10, 2013

Dating & Relationships 501...12 RADIO SHOW



Welcome to the 12 RADIO SHOW!!! The 12 RADIO SHOW is the most innovative and interactive show on BlogTalkRadio. Tune in tonight at 9PM EST as the host, 12kyle, informs and entertains. Don't just listen to the show...log in to the chatroom and participate in the discussion. Don't miss it!!!

TOPIC - Dating & Relationships 501 co-hosted by Mz Kayotic. Join us as we discuss the good & the bad...the positive & negative of relationships. You don't want to miss this!!

Mz KAYOTIC



9pm EST

www.blogtalkradio.com/12kyle

(347)215-7162