Showing posts with label women. Show all posts
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Wednesday, January 30, 2019

PODCAST: cutting people off...




On this week’s episode of The 12Kyle Podcast, we’re talking about cutting people off. Most people who are in your life that deserve to be cut off...normally fall into a few categories. We’ll discuss the categories and more on the podcast!


cutting people off...

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Thursday, December 13, 2018

PODCAST: breaking curfew...


Almost everybody has a story about the time that they broke the curfew that was set for them and they got caught. For some, it was a rite of passage. For others, it was a lesson that was learned. As for me, it was both...and it was funny. Listen to this episode of The 12Kyle Podcast and i'll tell you how it went down.

breaking curfew...

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Thursday, December 6, 2018

PODCAST: you ain't ready for a relationship...




If you ask most people, they will tell you that they normally KNOW when they are ready for a relationship. But the question is...do you REALLY know? On this week's episode of The 12Kyle Podcast, we'll talk about some questions to ask yourself to help determine if you are ready for a relationship.

you ain't ready for a relationship...

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Thursday, November 29, 2018

PODCAST: be careful what you ask for...





Have you ever heard the saying... "Be careful of what you ask for because you just might get it"??? Well, on this week's episode of the 12Kyle Podcast, I will share 3 stories about people (including me) who asked for something but were not prepared for the results.


1:37 - Sleeping your way to the top...
8:42 - She wants to have your baby...
15:32 - I should have known she was crazy...


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Thursday, November 15, 2018

PODCAST: myths about sex...




Even with all of the technology and information that we have access to, you would think that people would know more about sex. Unfortunately, they don't know as much as they THINK that they do. Taboos about sex, fears about desire, and the uneasiness of speaking about our bodies have led to many myths about sex. Myths wouldn't be a thing if we made accurate information about sex accessible to young people. On this week's episode of The 12Kyle Podcast, we will comically take a look at some popular myths about sex. Listen and let me know what you think.

myths about sex...

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Thursday, October 4, 2018

PODCAST: when do you marry her?







There comes a time in every serious relationship when you start to decide if you and your significant other will get married. At times, the decision is easier for women than it is for men. On this week's episode of The 12Kyle Podcast, we will discuss the keys to knowing when a man should marry a woman.

when do you marry her?

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Tuesday, October 2, 2018

PODCAST: the 20 traits women want in a man w/ @KDot090




Of all the questions that have plagued man’s existence, few as are perplexing as what motivates the thoughts of the opposite sex. Men's Health recently polled over 1000 American women between the ages of 21 & 54 in two online surveys. Once the results were in, they organized the characteristic traits that women valued the most based on how often they appeared. 

On this podcast, we'll give you the list of traits and give our thoughts on them. We'll also tell you whether or not they are significant in our eyes. Also, we'll tell you our thoughts on how each relates to attracting women. 

The podcast is co-hosted by Keon (@KDot090) 

The 20 Traits Women Want in a Man... 

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Thursday, September 6, 2018

PODCAST: things that you should do AFTER sex...






When it comes to sex, there has always been a discussion about what you should and should not do BEFORE having sex. There's also been many discussions about what you should do DURING sex. But it's not often for people to talk about what you should do AFTER sex. On this podcast, I'll do just that.

things that you should do AFTER sex...

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Wednesday, August 22, 2018

you are so pretty...




...

So...

Today I was standing in the checkout line at the grocery store. I’m just chillin and waiting to pay for my groceries so that I can leave. The line that I’m standing in is long but it’s moving pretty fast. There was a man who was in line ahead of me. If I had to take a guess, he’s about 40 yrs old. We made eye contact and gave each other the proverbial "head nod" to say what's up. There was a woman who was standing in line in front of him. At first glance, she looked like she was about 40 yrs old as well.

The woman was very attractive. When she spoke to the cashier, she had a sweet & silky southern drawl.

The dude hears her speaking and immediately looks at me and gives me a look that says "Can you believe how FINE this woman is?"

Could I believe it? Yes. This is Atlanta. You can meet a runway model at 6:15 in a random grocery store. It happens. But back to the story...

I acknowledge his "look" by giving him another head nod that indicated that he probably should say something to her. The guy turns back toward the woman and she turns towards him. Before he could say something, she says "hello" to him.

He froze. I'm not sure why. But he froze for 2 seconds. Then he replied to her


"You are so pretty."

The woman paused...partly because she didn't expect that from him...then she smiled and said "thank you" as she grabbed her items to walk out of the store.

I looked at him and gave him a weird look that said
"Is that all that you could come up with?" I knew that he wanted to say something. He could have struck up a conversation. But he fumbled. Badly. And he knew it. He watched her walk out of the store and all that he could do was shake his head. He paid for his groceries and so did I.

As I'm leaving the store, I noticed the woman again. She stopped at the ATM that was outside of the store. But the dude didn't see her.

She grabbed her cash and was walking towards her car. So was I. And so was the dude

As it turned out, we all parked next to each other in the same parking lot row. We were in a line...my car, her car, then his car. So, he STILL has a chance to redeem himself and say something to her. He didn't have to spit a pickup line. Just talk. I'm sure she would have been receptive to him. He reaches his car a few seconds before we get to ours. He looks at her again. She looks at him. He had peeped the personalized license plate tags on her BMW. He looked up and said..


"That's a nice license plate on your car. The name on your plate (ROSE MARY)...is that your name?"

She smiled and replied...

"No, that's my grandmothers name."


She got in her car and drove off.

I could tell that she was somewhat disappointed that he didn't strike up a conversation. Who knows where it could have gone?

Maybe he didn't know what to say. Maybe he was just scared?

He was probably thinking about a "line" to throw at her. Sometimes, you can get in your own way. Especially, if you try to be someone that you're not.

Just be yourself and have a plan as to what you want to say to people. You'll make things a lot easier for yourself

Wednesday, May 23, 2018

6 ways you can get an STD...that aren't sex





You would think that people would know these things. But honestly, a lot of people don't know. I found this on Men's Health the other day. 


You know what the “S” in STD stands for, right? True to their name, the vast majority of sexually transmitted diseases stem from sexual contact. But there are non-sexual behaviors that can carry risks too.

“People are always asking me if the can get herpes from a hot tub or hotel sheets or toilet seats,” says herpes expert Christine Johnson, M.D., an associate professor of infectious disease at the University of Washington. “But herpes and some of these other bugs don’t live on surfaces.”

In fact, unlike cold and flu germs, most STD viruses “die immediately” once they leave the human body. For that reason, your risk of contracting an STD outside the bedroom (or backseat, or wherever you get it on) is low. But it’s not non-existent.

Here are all the ways you could end up with an STD that aren’t penetrative sex.

1. Oral Sex

“Oral sex is sex,” Johnston says. Herpes, syphilis, gonorrhea, and other STDs can all be transmitted during oral sex—whether you’re giving or receiving, she says. While it's difficult to compare the risks of getting specific STDs from different types of sex, according to the Center for Disease Control, studies have shown that the risk of getting HIV from oral sex with an infected partner (either giving or getting oral sex) is much lower than the risk of getting HIV from anal or vaginal sex with an infected partner. Condoms or dental dams are effective ways to protect yourself, according to the CDC

2. Sharing Razors

Blood-borne STD pathogens—including the viruses that cause AIDS and hepatitis C—can be transmitted via razor. “It’s extremely rare,” Johnston says. But it’s something to keep in mind if you ever think to borrow a buddy’s Mach 3.

3. Unregulated Tattoos

Nearly all tattoo parlors in the U.S. follow proper health regulations. In those cases, you’re not at risk for an STD. But if you’re getting inked by a friend or at an “unregulated” tattoo shop where needles are reused, you’re at risk for hepatitis C and HIV, Johnston says.

4. Sharing Needles

Intravenous drug users (or anyone who shares needles) is at risk of contracting STIs—even beyond HIV or hepatitis C Johnston says. One recent study from the University of Florida found injection drug users may be almost twice as likely to contract an STD than people who don’t use these drugs. According to the study, those who share needles tend to be bigger sexual risk-takers and have links to high-risk networks, which gives them a greater chance of sex with an infected partner. This in turn, increases their overall STD risk and their risk for HIV infection.

5. Kissing


While herpes simplex 1 (oral herpes) is not strictly considered an STD, it can—and often is—passed via kissing, says Dr. Khalil Ghanem, M.D., Ph.D., an associate professor of medicine at Johns Hopkins University School of Medicine. If both you and your smooching partner have open cuts or sores around your mouths, that could potentially expose you to other STDs, he adds.

6. Dry humping

Even if you and your partner stop short of sex, rubbing your bare genitals together could lead to STD transmission, according to the CDC. For example, if your partner kept her underwear on but had an exposed, open syphilis sore, rubbing your penis on it could lead to an infection.

Thursday, April 12, 2018

PODCAST: the best places to meet people



On this week's episode of The 12kyle Podcast, we will explore some of the best places to meet someone. Listen & let me know what you think

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Thursday, March 8, 2018

PODCAST: the things women won't tell you about sex (but you need to know) w /@iamchrisrenee & @lchantay




Most men know a great deal about women. They know even more about the women that they sleep with. However, there are a few things that they DON'T know. On this episode of the 12kyle Podcast, CryssRenee & Chantay stop by to discuss...the things women won't tell you about sex (but you need to know)

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Thursday, February 15, 2018

PODCAST: 21 questions to ask a guy...





It has been often said that men aren't as talkative as they should be. Ladies...have you ever had the issue of getting a man to talk? Maybe it's not him. Maybe you're not asking the RIGHT questions! What are the right questions? I have 21 Questions to Ask Guy...and I discuss them on this week's episode of the 12kyle Podcast.




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Thursday, November 16, 2017

PODCAST: the 5 toughest that women ask...



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There is an old saying that you should never ask a question that you are not prepared to deal with the answer. Sometimes...women and men tend to forget that. On this podcast, we explore the 5 toughest questions that women ask (but really don't want to know the answer to). This podcast will comically take a look at the responses that men should (and should not) give.

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Wednesday, November 8, 2017

she's fine...no condom needed



I'm going to take a guess about you. I would guess that at least 99.95% of you who are reading this have had unprotected sex at least ONCE in your lifetime. Is that a safe guess? I think so. Nonetheless, I found this article while reading last week. Good information here. I'm not sure how many of you (men & women) who this applies to...and I'm not here to pass judgement. LOL. But we've got to be a little smarter about how we get down. The idea of passing up on protection because "she's fine" or "she didn't look like she has something"...is not the move



Men who find their female sexual partners attractive are less likely to use condoms, according to a new study in BMJ Open. Apparently, the level of a woman's attractiveness impacts a man’s likelihood to practice safe sex.

“The primary purpose of the current study was better to understand the relationship between perceived attractiveness and condom use intentions in heterosexual men and to gain insights into the relationship between perceived attractiveness, demographics, sexual history and perceived sexual health status,” the authors write in the introduction.

The researchers found that, obviously, men who found women attractive had a greater desire to have sex with them. But while participants were more willing to have sex with attractive women, researchers found they were less inclined to use condoms when they do so. And men who considered themselves attractive also had a higher tendency to avoid condom use during sex.

Perhaps more interesting was their finding that men were still unlikely to wear condoms even when they thought the woman was at a higher risk of STDs. The researchers noted this was “surprising,” seeing as in past research, men have linked hot women with promiscuity and disease. Other studies, however, have contradicted these findings; one showed that men saw attractive women as less sexually risky when it came to STDs, assuming that they took care of themselves more than unattractive women. The diversity in findings may simply be a result of the fact that all men have differing opinions on the matter.

Only about 65 percent of men use condoms regularly, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, despite the fact that contraception has proven to be safe and effective. Condom bias, or people’s negative associations and attitudes about condoms, is often to blame: Individuals often feel that condoms are unpleasant and take away from the pleasure of sex (despite the fact that this myth has been proven wrong), or contribute to the loss of erection and other unwanted issues.

It’s interesting, then, that we now have some other psychological factors that go into condom avoidance — including the level of perceived attractiveness of a person. The researchers hope their study will inform people when making choices in their sexual life, particularly if they’re engaging in risky behavior with people they find attractive. They plan to continue researching the subject to develop interventions that can prevent condom bias, and instead help people be more aware of what motivates them in safe sex.

“Future research could also investigate whether individual differences in variables known to influence risk-taking, such as sexual sensation seeking and sexual excitation/inhibition, might mediate the relationship between attractiveness and condom use intentions,” they write.

Friday, July 14, 2017

PODCAST: how to turn a woman off...



A friend of mine recently asked me about what he was doing to turn women off. I told him there are SEVERAL things that a man can do to turn a woman off. Here they are...how to turn a woman off

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Saturday, April 8, 2017

PODCAST: love letterz



Six simple questions. I'll read the questions and give you my thoughts. You can let me know what you think!


1. Tell us about the first time that you fell in love

2. How has your perception of love changed over the years?

3. Has love influenced your creative side?

4. Do you have a favorite love song?

5. Do you have any regrets from past relationships?

6. Have you ever written a love letter?


Listen, and let us know what you think. Feel free to leave comments

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Monday, March 6, 2017

15 questions to ask at the end of every interview...



I came across this article on the WSJ the other day. Hopefully, this can help you.



It's important to remember that every interview is a two-way street.


You should be assessing the employer just as much as they're assessing you because you both need to walk away convinced that the job would be a great fit.


So when the tables are turned and the interviewer asks, "Do you have any questions for me?" take advantage of this opportunity. It's the best way to determine if you'd be happy working for this employer, and whether your goals are aligned with theirs.


"The very process of asking questions completely changes the dynamic of the interview and the hiring manager's perception of you," says Teri Hockett, chief executive of What's For Work?, a career site for women. "Asking questions also gives you the opportunity to discover details that you might not have otherwise unveiled."


Amy Hoover, president of TalentZoo, says there's another reason you should always prepare questions. "It's expected — and if you don't ask at least two questions, you will appear disinterested, or worse, less intelligent and engaged than a prospective employer would like." You should have at least four questions prepared, though, in case your original two are answered through the course of the interview.


But, Hoover says, don't just ask questions for the sake of it. To actually benefit from them, you'll need to think carefully about what you want to ask.


"Your questions can, in fact, make or break an interview," she explains. "If they're not thoughtful, or if you ask something that has already been addressed, this can hurt you way more than it can help. Asking smart, engaging questions is imperative."


Luckily, there are plenty of smart ones to pick from.


Here are 15 questions you should always ask in a job interview — if they weren't already answered — to help you get a better sense of the role and the company, and to leave the interview with a positive, lasting impression:


1. Who do you think would be the ideal candidate for this position, and how do I compare?

Hoover recommends this question because it's a quick way to figure out whether your skills align with what the company is currently looking for. If they don't match up, then you know to walk away instead of wasting time pursuing the wrong position for yourself, she says.


2. Who would I be reporting to? Are those three people on the same team or on different teams? What's the pecking order?

It's important to ask about the pecking order of a company in case you have several bosses.If you're going to be working for several people, you need to know "the lay of the internal land," she says, or if you're going to be over several people, then you probably want to get to know them before accepting the position.


3. How has this position evolved?

Basically, this question just lets you know whether this job is a dead end or a stepping-stone.


4. How would you describe the company's culture?

Hoover says this question gives you a broad view on the corporate philosophy of a company and on whether it prioritizes employee happiness.

5. Who do you consider your major competitors? How are you better?

This question is not for the faint of heart, but it shows that you are already thinking about how you can help the company rise to meet some of its bigger goals, says Peter Harrison, CEO of Snagajob.


6. Beyond the hard skills required to successfully perform this job, what soft skills would serve the company and position best?

Knowing what skills the company thinks are important will give you more insight into its culture and its management values, Hoover says, so you can evaluate whether you would fit in.

7. Do you have any hesitations about my qualifications?


While this question puts you in a vulnerable position, it shows that you are confident enough to openly bring up and discuss your weaknesses with your potential employer.

8. What do you like most about working for this company?

Hoover says this question is important because it lets you "create a sense of camaraderie" with the interviewer because "interviewers — like anyone — usually like to talk about themselves and especially things they know well." Plus, this question gives you a chance to get an insider's view on the best parts about working for this particular company, she says.

9. Can you give me example of how I would collaborate with my manager?

Knowing how managers use their employees is important so you can decide whether they are the type of boss that will let you use your strengths to help the company succeed.

10. Can you tell me what steps need to be completed before your company can generate an offer?

"Any opportunity to learn the timeline for a hire is crucial information for you," Hoover advises.

Asking about an "offer" rather than a "decision" will give you a better sense of the timeline because "decision" is a broad term, while an "offer" refers to the point when they're ready to hand over the contract.

11. How would you score the company on living up to its core values? What’s the one thing you’re working to improve on?

Harrison says this is a respectful way to ask about shortcomings within the company — which you should definitely be aware of before joining a company. As a bonus, he says it shows that you are being proactive in wanting to understand more about the internal workings of the company before joining it.

12. What are the challenges of this position?

If the interviewer says, "There aren't any," you should proceed with caution.

13. What have past employees done to succeed in this position?

The main point of this question is to get your interviewer to reveal how the company measures success.

14. If you were to hire me, what might I expect in a typical day?

Obviously this shows your eagerness about the position, Harrison says, but it also gives you a better idea about what the job will be like on a daily basis so you can decide whether you really want to pursue it. "A frank conversation about position expectations and responsibilities will ensure not only that this is a job you want, but also one that you have the skills to be successful in," he advises.

15. What type of employee tends to succeed here? What qualities are the most important for doing well and advancing at the firm?

This question shows the interviewer that you care about your future at the company, and it will also help you decide if you're a good fit for the position, Oliver writes. "Once the interviewer tells you what she's looking for in a candidate, picture that person in your mind's eye," she says. "She or he should look a lot like you."


Saturday, February 25, 2017

PODCAST: thoughts on marriage (w/ tko0076)



This podcast came about in the most unusual way.

I sat down at my computer with no thoughts of what the podcast would be about. Then...my wife walked into the room to talk to me about something. Suddenly...the light in my head turned on! I decided to record a conversation with her for the podcast. While that doesn't SOUND too far fetched...for her it is. She is someone who is very detailed and organized. The mere thought of her recording a podcast would have made her ask me for a list of the topics so that she would be prepared. Not this time. This was an off the cuff...off the dome...conversation.

We talked about how we met. We also talk about our thoughts on marriage. Check out this funny and spontaneous conversation with my wife, Sherice (@tko0076). Listen and let us know what you think.

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Saturday, February 18, 2017

PODCAST: the good break up



We all have experienced a break up or two when it comes to relationships. Some have ended on a good note. Others haven't. On this podcast, we will discuss breaking up with someone. In particular, how to have a good break up with your ex mate. The podcast is co-hosted by special guest, Echo Silent. Listen and let us know what you think.

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