Thursday, May 8, 2008

spark tha L

"All our young lives we search for someone to love. Someone who makes us complete. We choose partners and change partners. We dance to a song of heartbreak and hope. All the while wondering if somewhere, somehow, there's someone perfect who might be searching for us."-Anonymous


The other day -1- asked me "what is love?"

Here was my response...

love is love. love is great. love sucks. love hurts. to give love and have it reciprocated is a special feeling. you never know love until you open your heart. you must tear down the fortress that you've built around your hear to let love in. love is beautiful. love can be tough. love can be mistaken for lust. some folk are in love with being in love. love knows no color. love is love. i love 2 love

I've got a couple of questions for you today.

Who do you love?

What do you love?

Where do you love?

When do you love?

Why do you love?

As for me...
Who do you love?
My sons, my wife, my parents, my friends, and God

What do you love?
sports, black people, the 12th Planet

Where do you love?
everywhere

When do you love?
as soon as my heart opens up

Why do you love?
that's what i was taught to do at a young age

What about you? Holla!

24 comments:

  1. Who do you love?
    God, me, daughter, mom, hubby nephews, sis, real friends

    What do you love?
    The power I have as an intelligent Black woman. My strength.

    Where do you love?
    Anywhere

    When do you love?
    I'm always loving the abovementioned even when I'm angry.

    Why do you love?
    Because it's God's will. And when Particular people show you love and it's real you can't help but reciprocate...Ya dig?

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  2. Who do you love?
    family, which includes the friends I've made along the way

    What do you love?
    NYC; being shoulder deep in ocean water; wind in my hair

    Where do you love?
    wherever I can

    When do you love?
    when I feel it will be reciprocated

    Why do you love?
    because it makes me smile, laugh lines be damned!

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  3. Who do you love?

    God, my children, my family, my friends

    What do you love?

    Peace, passion...having a vision, writing.

    When do you love?

    All the time...at the butterfly stage.

    Why do you love?

    It's in me...it is the greatest gift.

    Where do you love?

    Wherever i am.

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  4. Now you know I aint deep... so my answers will reflect such... so NO snickering! Got it... GOOD!

    Who do you love?
    God, my family most of the time... but my mom... I love her to death, MYSELF, 2pac

    What do you love?
    I love blogging, writing, football, my flaws and all.

    Where do you love?

    I love from within... my mind, and my spirit love first, then it makes way for my body

    When do you love?

    I love when its necessary to and when I feel loved

    Why do you love?

    Because love makes life a little easier to bear... if its that real ish

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  5. AnonymousMay 08, 2008

    Who? God, my wife, my sons, my Mom, my brothers, my fam extended.

    What? All forms of ball except (except golf and tennis). Beer, Life, Nice cars, Pretty women.

    Where? Anywhere I'm at there's love.

    When? Whenever I'm awake. Probably when I'm asleep too.

    Why? Because I'm the type of person who loves to be loved. And the best way to be loved is to show love.

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  6. Who do you love?
    My husband, family and close friend

    What do you love?
    Sleeping, dining, writing, traveling and spending time with my family.

    Where do you love?
    NYC, Chicago and anywhere there are beaches!

    When do you love?
    All the time.

    Why do you love?
    Because it makes me feel good.

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  7. @ prettyblack
    I can dig it!

    @ Jaded NYer
    Shoulder deep in the ocean? Word? Man, i can't let it get above my waist. Too scared that i might get sucked away. LOL

    @ Miz
    You love writing? REAAAAAAALY??? LOL

    @ Eb the Celeb
    Why we always gotta bring Tupac up? LOL

    @ Brad
    You love beer like Homer Simpson, right? LOL

    @ BGG
    I love the beach, too

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  8. Who do you love?
    God, Family and Friends

    What do you love?
    Living, Loving and Laughing

    Where do you love?
    Anywhere

    When do you love?
    Anytime

    Why do you love?
    It's the most natural thing in the world.

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  9. honest answers. i'm so happy to see a black person not mention food as a love. [lmao] i, myself, eat to live, not live to eat.

    *just checkin' in on my fave planet author*

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  10. WHO...God, my boys, family, friends, me

    WHAT...Dresses, sunny days, crisp soothing nights, long baths, beauty in all facets, love, unexpected/unexplainable magnetic connections to kindred spirits

    WHEN...At all times. Once you start you can't stop. Love doesn't fade in and out, for its grip is stronger than even death

    WHERE...In the realm of the spirit, but manifested here on earth

    WHY...It's what I was created to do.

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  11. I love my family & self

    I love to read books, swim, cruise and daydream. Oh, and seafood & beef (just keeping it real proactiff, lol).

    I always love in the now.

    I love where ever I am.

    I love because I honestly believe that is why I am here. To live love, give love and be loved.

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  12. AnonymousMay 08, 2008

    Who do you love?
    God, my family, my friends, my enemies, my neighbors.

    What do you love?
    The fact that everyday I am becoming a better me.

    Where do you love?
    In my heart, my mind, and when it's deep...my soul.

    When do you love?
    Sometimes too soon...

    Why do you love?
    Because there's no better feeling than love.

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  13. AnonymousMay 08, 2008

    Who do you love?
    God Mom, Dad, Brothers, Aunts, Uncles, Friends all those who touched my life in a special way.

    What do you love?
    Life in general. Just being able to have a sound body & mind.

    Where do you love?
    Everywhere.

    When do you love?
    When someone loves you back.

    Why do you love?
    Good question. Because my parents where loving people. Morals, values, & principles of life. And we are suppose to love according to the Good book.
    "For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotton son that whosever believeth in him should not perish but have everlasting life".

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  14. @ Tabu
    You are right. Loving is very natural and easy to do.

    @ PRO
    I would say that I "like" to eat. Some days I do...and some days I don't.

    Thanks for checking in on yah boy!

    @ Queen
    "kindred spirits". I hear you, Queen. Those are the people who we call our friends.

    @ prettyparker
    Seafood and beef! LOL. I feel u

    @ Jewells
    How soon is too soon?

    @ Jeff S-Class
    Amen!

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  15. Who do you love? GOD, My children, My Husband

    What do you love? I love waking up every morning and kissing my children and husband

    Where do you love? I love all over the place

    When do you love? 365 24/7

    Why do you love? because I want to be loved

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  16. Who do you love? my son, my husband, God, my mom, grandma and sisters, myself and my closest friends

    What do you love? NYC, Brooklyn Sleep, dancing, stocks, quiet time

    Where do you love? where my heart leads me

    When do you love? When I trust you

    Why do you love?

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  17. 1) i would die for my girls. for that which i believe in my heart. so that's what i love.

    2) i love love.

    3) ...deep down in my heart.

    4) forever and a day.

    5) can't run, when love alls your name. remember that song by kem.

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  18. BOY YOU KNOW YOU'RE DEEP! I LOVE IT!!!!!!

    WHO DO YOU LOVE? I love God, myself, my family, my friends, and SOME of my neighbors (A Work In Progress)

    WHAT DO YOU LOVE? I love dissecting and digesting God's word, I love growing, I love making music, I love chillin', I love vibin', I love walking in faith, I love life, I love writing, I love blogging, I love....I love...(too much to name)...lol

    WHERE DO YOU LOVE? I love in private as much as I love in public

    WHEN DO YOU LOVE? Even when I am dreaming

    WHY DO YOU LOVE? Because God is about love, because he designed me to love, he is teaching me how to love, he loves me for wanting to love, and because he loves me even when others don't!

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  19. Who do you love?GOD, ME DAUGHTER, FAMILY AND CLOSE FRIENDS...

    What do you love? FOOD, LIFE, HAPPINESS,BLOGGING, GETTING MY EYEBROWS WAXED, LAUGHING....ETC

    Where do you love? IN MY HEART, IN MY MIND, IN MY SOUL

    When do you love? ALL THE TIME

    Why do you love? ITS HEALTHY!!

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  21. Who do you love? My God, My 3 beautiful angels, family and the few folks I call friends

    What do you love? I love waking up in the morning to my 3 beautiful children, I love how they are always excited to see me, I love to hear them say " I love you mommy"

    Where do you love? Anywhere love is allowed. lol

    When do love?
    When my heart opens up and allows me to love

    What do you love?
    I love waking up in the morning to my 3 beautiful children, I love how they are always excited to see me, I love to hear them say " I love you mommy"

    Why do you love?
    Because I was born to love.

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  22. i never got to tell u how i liked your response to my question.

    thanks for the shout.

    who do u love- my family, my gays, my friends

    what do u love- the ability to learn, to forgive, and to see another day

    where do u love- it starts in my heart, pours out my eyes, through my touch, and eventually thru my voice. i love everywhere, much like u

    when do u love- always. whenever possibile.

    why do u love- 'cuz i can. and i do it well. and i want to. it feels so good. and sometimes it hurts so bad.

    i like this post, 12.

    -1-

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  23. Who- God(for blessing me), mom(for birthing a wonderful human being), my deceased father( because so much of his spirit is in me, sis( just because), brother( for always having my back and being so living), Ashley( best friend a girl could ever have), and my fellow bloggers( for all the love and support.

    What- My life and all my blessings

    Where- Hmmmmm........

    When- When love is shined in my life

    Why- Because God blessed me with a loving and caring personality and that's the only way I know to be!

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  24. @ Poca
    You gotta love waking up and kissing the little ones

    @ The F$%K it List
    Do you really love stocks? LOL

    @ Don
    I hear you. I'd die for my boys, too!

    @ Keisha the Kitten
    Thanks!!! I appreciate that!

    Keep working on those neighbors. LOL

    @ Flyyest
    Ahhhh...here's sombody who loves food. haaaa

    @ Sexxy Luv
    Love is allowed everywhere. LOL

    @ -1-
    Thanks, sis. No problem

    You're right. Love feels good. Sometimes it's so good till it hurts

    @ DreamCop08
    I feel you. Much love to the bloggers

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