If a woman is looking for a man, there are some things she should look for.
Then...
There are things she should NEED her man to have...
Character
Discipline
Driven
Talent
Integrity
Passion
Did you notice that I didn't mention anything about looks, money, status, etc. ?
Character
Discipline
Driven
Talent
Integrity
Passion
Did you notice that I didn't mention anything about looks, money, status, etc. ?
I see you. Trying to slip in a little sermon. You ain't foolin us Reverend Kyle.
ReplyDeleteOr is it Deacon Kyle?
Great, GREAT point.
*waiting for other comments*
No you didn't mention that tangible stuff. It don't mean much.
ReplyDeleteAnd the tangible is born out of the intangible (character, integrity, etc.). A man well developed in all the characteristics you listed above is worth his weight in goal, and on his way to being successful, if he already isn't.
I was reading that a man can have ALL the looks, money, etc... but ultimately, you are marrying or dating that man's CHARACTER. Period. And that's what matters most.
Good short sermon, bruh. lol.
I agree but I am sure you already knew that.
ReplyDeleteWhy?
Because looks fade, money can be attained then lost and status is well...temporary at best.
Better to look for things one can not lose or have taken away. Hard to have deep conversation or build a lasting and fulfilling life with money, looks and status. Good post...
I thinks this is a good starter list. But please understand that the list will grow as we mature.
ReplyDeletePerfect points. I think I may need to forward this to my boy who is having major relationship phobia issues.
ReplyDeleteTiffany
Peace, Love and Chocolate
http://liferequiresmorechocolate.blogspot.com
I won't lie to you, Kyle- I still find myself getting caught up in the aesthetics, passing up good dudes that have flaws in their looks for "eh" dudes who are FOINE.
ReplyDeleteI can't seem to get out of the shallow end of the pool, but I'm working on it.
(still...I like my man to look good- is that a crime?!)
Love, love, love those 6 things! Definitely what i am needing in a man.
ReplyDeleteGreat List.....and I agree, but you're preaching to the choir here...The important thing is..do the ladies agree and understand?
ReplyDeleteGreat post as always bruh...I know a few women who should read this.
Definitely agree . . . my man needs to possess all 6 of these characteristics without a doubt!!!!!
ReplyDeletemy boo got all of this
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