tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post7036731906841748056..comments2023-10-30T05:32:20.748-04:00Comments on 12th Planet: 2nd place12kylehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11639316610856750674noreply@blogger.comBlogger40125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-68937833638608890922008-07-22T14:26:00.000-04:002008-07-22T14:26:00.000-04:00if i was the other dude i would not care because i...if i was the other dude i would not care because i would have other girls. that's easy.<BR/><BR/>as far as your friend is concerned, she is in a tough spot, but she need to go ahead and take steps away from him. when it comes down to it and he is forced to choose, then he is going to cut her off with no problem and she is going to be left high and dry.Stewhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11428766792757992025noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-85696627607176517722008-07-22T00:26:00.000-04:002008-07-22T00:26:00.000-04:00@ Sexxy LuvHaaaaa! I just posted! LMAO!! You are c...@ Sexxy Luv<BR/>Haaaaa! I just posted! LMAO!! You are crazy!12kylehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11639316610856750674noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-60558177093977524952008-07-22T00:25:00.000-04:002008-07-22T00:25:00.000-04:00i can't stay up no more waiting for tuesday post, ...i can't stay up no more waiting for tuesday post, i thought you posted at 12:12 every night?Sexxy Luvhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14570801991117260817noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-70667924557712833652008-07-21T23:52:00.000-04:002008-07-21T23:52:00.000-04:00@ TorranceNo doubt!@ ShellyShellWOW!!! That sounds...@ Torrance<BR/>No doubt!<BR/><BR/>@ ShellyShell<BR/>WOW!!! That sounds like an episode of the Young and the Restless<BR/><BR/>@ Eb the Celeb<BR/>LOL!!! U silly<BR/><BR/>I wanna see her get him outta her system sooner than later. <BR/><BR/>@ laughing808<BR/><I>"And how could you begin to trust a man that cheats on his wife?"</I> Soooo true. History will repeat itself<BR/><BR/>@ Kieya <BR/>You make an interesting point. The fact that he <B>lied</B> about it should've been enuf to kick him to the curb<BR/><BR/>@ Flyyest<BR/>LMAO @ no sir ree bob!!!!! I haven't heard that in years!<BR/><BR/>@ prettyblack<BR/>WOW! <BR/><BR/>@ Mika<BR/>I agree with you. I don't want to see this prolonged b/c it's not healthy for her...at all<BR/><BR/>@ Anonymous (ShaTonya)<BR/>Thank you for commenting. You didn't have to. You've had a chance to read what the people have said. Now...it's up to you. And its on your timetable.12kylehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11639316610856750674noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-19885280810646142482008-07-21T22:56:00.000-04:002008-07-21T22:56:00.000-04:00I have been the other woman... but not by choice. ...I have been the other woman... but not by choice. On more than once occasion, I was in relationships with men who hadn't quite ended things with their previous relationships and by the time I found out about it, feelings were already involved...<BR/><BR/>But how can I believe that someone loves me when he has vowed to love another? How can I be okay with that? I couldn't. I don't share my men, and I don't share myself. I hope that your friend separates herself from that situation before matters get worse. The longer she is a part of it, the harder it will be to walk away from it.Miss Mikahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02844711272109432292noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-4205786907234262342008-07-21T20:12:00.000-04:002008-07-21T20:12:00.000-04:00Okay I read the comment by the chick who says she ...Okay I read the comment by the chick who says she is who this post was about...And this got me:<BR/><BR/>"Just so you know being the other women have some great benefits and are better benefits than the wife gets on a regular."<BR/><BR/>How would you know? Seems to me game recognize game and he recognized that you didn't have any. Best believe if you were the princess his wife was the queen.<BR/><BR/>How do you think you had it better. Because he came to your crib instead of providing you with one? Fortunately I can't feel what you're going through. The way Kyle described you, you are very smart book wise, but it sounds like you have no common sense. You were the wife once, now you are sloppy seconds. That's nowhere for a woman with any kind of love of self, to be. Believe that.<BR/><BR/>Everyone answers to what they do in this life and it may come sooner than later...That brotha (or whatever) is having his cake and eating it to and your footing the bill. If you are so special how come your the secret?<BR/><BR/>A man can only cheat if he has someone to do it with, so basically you are the individual who turns a man into a mouse, and makes a louse for a spouse. You're nothing but slave cabin poosie and the wife sits up in the big house...He's telling you you are not worthy of that. He's a piece of shit and your the toilet he's swimming around in. Sorry to be so harsh, but you sound as if you think you have it good...Boo they NEVER leave wifey...NEVER. Christmas will be very lonely this year if you don't find someone of your own to share it with.<BR/><BR/>You deserve to be seen, not stowed away...But maybe you don't see that.<BR/><BR/>You were never number one...he just gamed you to make you feel like that. His wife is number one.PrettyBlackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10165266284046402228noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-64053826602240651202008-07-21T19:35:00.000-04:002008-07-21T19:35:00.000-04:00i was the other woman....well at least i didnt kno...i was the other woman....well at least i didnt know til his WIFE called me on halloween '05!!! i cut that short!! i dont do "mistress"<BR/><BR/>no sir ree bob!!!!! i cant compete with the wife...(girlfriend maybe) but not a WIFE!!!!! lmaoThe Flyyesthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06210411477689239417noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-1826375833824001552008-07-21T18:13:00.000-04:002008-07-21T18:13:00.000-04:00Wow...So she wasn't upset that he lied? I mea...Wow...<BR/><BR/>So she wasn't upset that he lied? I mean...not just a "oh, I'm really 35 even though I said I was 30" lie but a "i have a joint account & a wife at home"<BR/><BR/>homeboy is having his cake & eating it too<BR/><BR/>I've never been in that situation b/c...I think its just wrong & karma's a b*tch and I know I wouldn't want that to happen to me but homegirl has got to let go. It'll suck & she'll probably have her guard up for extra long afterwards but its better that way.Mohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10302233036493770234noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-12957124375087852332008-07-21T18:10:00.000-04:002008-07-21T18:10:00.000-04:00This is my comment since I'm the one he is referri...This is my comment since I'm the one he is referring too. I have read all the comments and must say I'm impress . It is easy when you are not the one in the situation to give advise and be judge and juror . There were never any signs that he was married because day or night he was with me . I did ask in the beginning if there was any one else and he stated that he had a girlfriend but they are no longer together. Love is funny and comes with no warnings signs. But to say the least I know now and I have begun the process of leaving him as far as not seeing him or have any contact but like many of you stated it takes time. It hard turn feelings off when you have been with someone that makes you feel like "#1". And the funny thing I have been married and now I'm divorce so I know both sides. Just so you know being the other women have some great benefits and are better benefits than the wife gets on a regular. But do not get me wrong I know this is not right and I know it has to end as I told by friend who has shared my business with the world!!!!!!!!!! <BR/>The Other womanAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-10376296258478612612008-07-21T17:39:00.000-04:002008-07-21T17:39:00.000-04:00It is reallu unfortunate that Shatonya let her gua...It is reallu unfortunate that Shatonya let her guard down only to wind up in this type of situation. But she does need to stand up and leave that woman's man alone. No good will come from continuing that relationship. As someone else stated, even if he was to leave his wife for her, she can best believe he'd probably cheat on her as well. And how could you begin to trust a man that cheats on his wife?<BR/><BR/>How does she do it? Cut all communication, severe all ties. There's no point in having a last conversation and telling, the reason should be obvious to him.laughing808https://www.blogger.com/profile/17401399607667620034noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-9303640506485795422008-07-21T17:36:00.000-04:002008-07-21T17:36:00.000-04:00GREAT POST BLOG BROTHA!First, I hope that "Shatony...GREAT POST BLOG BROTHA!<BR/><BR/>First, I hope that "Shatonya" is a fake name<BR/><BR/><BR/>Second, She definitely has to stop seeing him. I believe heavily in karma... and you dont want to be the wife and have your husband cheating. Also he is never going to leave his wife... I dont know why women think they can make a man leave his wife... if he wanted to, he would have done that already so that he doesnt have to sneak around... She just has to completely cease all communication with him. This is the epitome of settling and until she gets him out of her system, she wont truly be able to find anyone else.Eb the Celebhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12920888116302185562noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-2051585928229114902008-07-21T15:16:00.000-04:002008-07-21T15:16:00.000-04:00She needs to move on. I know her feelings are all ...She needs to move on. I know her feelings are all wrapped up in it now but dayum he was living two lives and straight lied to her. Karma is a mfer no good will come out of this. <BR/><BR/>I went on a few dates with a married man(didn't know at the time)our LAST date he told me he was legally seperated. I was like good luck with that. I'll holla. I don't mess with marriage. That is so disrespectful. Funny thing is he and I both moved to DC, he got a divorce and his ex wife ended up marrying my ex boyfriend....CRAZY!!ShellyShellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15682361206569478514noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-46614262943194343142008-07-21T14:52:00.000-04:002008-07-21T14:52:00.000-04:00some men and women are just foul like thatsome men and women are just foul like thatAll-Mi-T [Thought Crime] Rawdawgbuffalohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08843040863123899426noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-34878035257229051482008-07-21T14:24:00.000-04:002008-07-21T14:24:00.000-04:00@ Smarty JonesLMAO @ u!!!!I hope your brother know...@ Smarty Jones<BR/>LMAO @ u!!!!<BR/><BR/>I hope your brother knows what he's doing12kylehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11639316610856750674noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-30417374776913360422008-07-21T13:57:00.000-04:002008-07-21T13:57:00.000-04:00Whew! That felt good! Thanks Kyle. :)Whew! That felt good! Thanks Kyle. :)Tiffany S. Joneshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09564533523575614747noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-26111120797889557962008-07-21T13:56:00.000-04:002008-07-21T13:56:00.000-04:00Ohmigah! This sooooo proves my point.I just had a ...Ohmigah! This sooooo proves my point.<BR/>I just had a conversation with my brother who went to a Justice of the Peace last Thursday and came back with a wife.<BR/>Love is a man-made hunk of Grade-A crap!<BR/>You watch all these movies, read all these books and poems and listen to these damn love songs about love being so good and nice and sweet but that is a load of crap!<BR/>Love sucks!!! I'm sorry, it does. That's the problem with the world now, people make too many decisions based on how they <I>feel</I>.<BR/>I don't make decisions on how I feel. I did that before and my "feelin's" got me in trouble.<BR/>I'm moody and I might love you now and hate you tomorrow.<BR/>She messed around, let her guard down and "caught" some feelings and now it's hard to let go. I feel sorry for her because you know that has to be messing with her conscious and she probably beats herself up every time his name comes up.<BR/>See, that's why I stuff all my feelings in a box and don't let 'em out until New Year's!Tiffany S. Joneshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09564533523575614747noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-25603837449758199012008-07-21T13:36:00.000-04:002008-07-21T13:36:00.000-04:00@ ms.uncensoredI think it's gonna get messy. I say...@ ms.uncensored<BR/>I think it's gonna get messy. I say that only b/c she sounds like she's in too deep right now<BR/><BR/>@ pink<BR/><I>"god forbid wifey show up on her doorstep wit a .22 or somethin! or what if she got pregnant?! its too messy"</I><BR/>Sooo true. We talked about it this weekend. I don't wanna see her get shot or her ass kicked. <BR/><BR/>@ OD<BR/>I think her situation was similar. I never got specific details. I know that she had his home number which is a "no-no" when it comes to foolin around. Maybe the clues were there and she just ignored them<BR/><BR/>@ dessex<BR/>I hear you, bruh. I can't go that route either. I don't think I'd wanna be the dude on the side. I'm not worried about being second but I don't wanna compete with another man. <BR/><BR/>@ TravelDiva<BR/><I>"She can fall in love again, but she'll never get back the time."</I> I'm gonna tell her that. <BR/><BR/>@ Sexxy Luv<BR/>LOL!!! You are funny. I feel you, tho. I really feel you.12kylehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11639316610856750674noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-16131334930530783112008-07-21T13:11:00.000-04:002008-07-21T13:11:00.000-04:00I feel really bad for her, an i can understand why...I feel really bad for her, an i can understand why she is still seeing him, it's going to take a lot to let it go especially if he continues to treats her right.<BR/><BR/>I have never been the other woman, but i was the main woman while there was a "other woman"! <BR/><BR/>dogg ass nicca's is all i can say!Sexxy Luvhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14570801991117260817noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-33092954870632792002008-07-21T12:46:00.000-04:002008-07-21T12:46:00.000-04:00Oh that's terrible. I feel for her because that j...Oh that's terrible. I feel for her because that joker lied to her. But she needs to cut her losses. He's a loser--he's cheating on his wife, and probably has other chicks on the side. She's going to have to go cold turkey--no calls, no e-mails, no contact. She should not waste her time on him any longer. She can fall in love again, but she'll never get back the time. Moreover, she needs to think about his wife--she doesn't deserve this and by continuing the relationship knowing about the marriage, she is knowingly trashing someone's marriage.TravelDivahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06049148613958366344noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-89238085551602437432008-07-21T12:12:00.000-04:002008-07-21T12:12:00.000-04:00this was a great post....Now with me being a man I...this was a great post....<BR/><BR/>Now with me being a man I am going to be completely honest. Most men probably don't care about being that dude on the side (unless he is very emotional and starts to catch feelings) The fact of the matter is that most men are usually not that emotional attached to relationship as woman. So if a man can have a woman with no strings attached, that would be perfect. Me personally I don't think I could break up a happy home. Marriage is sacred and I wouldn't that to happen to me.<BR/><BR/>Sorry to be so long windneddessexhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12116249563620887215noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-44316891921023591552008-07-21T11:57:00.000-04:002008-07-21T11:57:00.000-04:00Was she really deceived?"She had some suspicions a...Was she really deceived?<BR/><BR/>"<B>She had some suspicions about it b/c she had never been invited to his place</B>"<BR/><BR/>Not judging her, but still...<BR/><BR/>I've been the other woman unknowingly. Since I'm such a nosy questioning woman I found out relatively quickly. <BR/><BR/>He claimed they were still married but living together until the divorce was sorted out and the lease ran out on their place.<BR/><BR/>Whatever...I was done!Jazzyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01186973972482369982noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-10965133912713930922008-07-21T11:32:00.000-04:002008-07-21T11:32:00.000-04:00not downin her...but i couldnt do it. i cant be 2...not downin her...but i couldnt do it. i cant be 2nd..i require waaay too much attention for that and im too jealous to stand for it. if shes been dogged out before, shes lettin it happen again. cut that shit loose now before it gets any worse. god forbid wifey show up on her doorstep wit a .22 or somethin! or what if she got pregnant?! its too messy.pinkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16197290256693701853noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-51265981763187174422008-07-21T10:37:00.000-04:002008-07-21T10:37:00.000-04:00she needs to let that one go. it almost never work...she needs to let that one go. it almost never works out. and usually ends badly.<BR/><BR/>i've never been the other woman knowingly. until five months after a break up i get hit with the shitload of bricks tellin me i was. watevs.<BR/><BR/>i know plenty of dudes who don't mind being the other man. from what i hear its less complicated since the chick already belongs to someone else. its kinda no strings attached. on the other hand. when the chick catches feelings shit may get messy.tris.https://www.blogger.com/profile/01539444650562897400noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-25833833089865137702008-07-21T10:26:00.000-04:002008-07-21T10:26:00.000-04:00@ DariusI think you hit the nail on the head. The ...@ Darius<BR/>I think you hit the nail on the head. The signs may have been there but she just didn't want to see it. <BR/><BR/>Hope everything is good with you, bruh. <BR/><BR/>@ Keith<BR/>LOL! I agree, bruh. I don't have the time. One of the benefits to being married is that you don't have to run around in dem streets. I dunno what they are thinking about. Maybe they aren't thinking??<BR/><BR/>@ Jaded Santana<BR/>I feel you. There's a difference between knowing and not knowing. You are rational. And you know that if he's taken...he's not gonna be yours. <BR/><BR/>@ Jewells<BR/>I understand that she can't just turn off her feelings. I don't begrudge her for that. I feel you on that point. However, that was months ago. She could have been over this dude by now if she had left him back then. She needs to concern herself with protecting her heart. <BR/><BR/>@ PRO<BR/>The "bullet". LOL!!! Loves your analogies. Great points<BR/><BR/>@ Rich<BR/>It's a lose-lose situation. She knows that she has to face the music. We talked on the phone the other day and she said <I>"I'm in the process of leaving him right now."</I><BR/><BR/>I told her that she sounded like somebody "trying to get off drugs." LOL!12kylehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11639316610856750674noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-77267475908981963252008-07-21T10:14:00.000-04:002008-07-21T10:14:00.000-04:00Never down for playing 2nd fiddle. The only thing ...Never down for playing 2nd fiddle. The only thing she can do is make a clean break. She may as well get ready for all the "reasons" for why he's there sort of stuff. Cause he's apparently not trying to give her up. His wife must travel or live in another city or something temporarily for him to spend the type of time that he does. Either way, my heart goes out to her, becuase that is not a nice place to be in. It's a no win deal.Rich Fitzgeraldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02402320643799892517noreply@blogger.com