tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post3325323020136696081..comments2023-10-30T05:32:20.748-04:00Comments on 12th Planet: uzasukkafoluv12kylehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11639316610856750674noreply@blogger.comBlogger33125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-2646594337198507162009-01-08T17:29:00.000-05:002009-01-08T17:29:00.000-05:00I empathize with her. However, I wouldn't go that ...I empathize with her. However, I wouldn't go that route. Based off of what you said (haven't gone to the site yet), she seems to be going about it all the wrong way. More than likely she's gonna end up marrying the wrong guy.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-76141969470676506142009-01-08T11:25:00.000-05:002009-01-08T11:25:00.000-05:00yeah that is just crazy. 1 year? i hope she covers...yeah that is just crazy. 1 year? i hope she covers all her basese b/c 1 year is not nearly enough time to meet and marry a stranger. <BR/><BR/>good luck with thatKingsmommahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06370183128501308185noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-71178687606714159542009-01-07T22:57:00.001-05:002009-01-07T22:57:00.001-05:00@ My sissy:I'm sure you're not gonna be 42 and sin...@ My sissy:<BR/>I'm sure you're not gonna be 42 and single...and wait how are u all up on other people's blogs and not helping me deal with this crazy life of mine ova on mine<BR/><BR/>Anyhow Kyle, hehe...totally agree. I don't care how desperate you get...they are just somethings you just have to WAIT for...until the time is right :-)A.M.https://www.blogger.com/profile/16746552762355853918noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-6520114221494240052009-01-07T22:57:00.000-05:002009-01-07T22:57:00.000-05:00I'm not sure about this site at all. On one hand I...I'm not sure about this site at all. <BR/><BR/>On one hand I can see how some would think she is desperate. She is after all putting herself out there in a way that is uncommon and to some strange. <BR/><BR/>On the other hand, she is 42 and single and at this point she is up against a wall. In this society people look at you sideways if you are single over 40, and will treat you like a leaper. <BR/><BR/>so more power to her, I can't see how it will work but if it does you might see more and more of these sites pop up.The F_Uitlisthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05537743664312801916noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-6431187206406499242009-01-07T19:36:00.000-05:002009-01-07T19:36:00.000-05:00So many of the blog comments ring so very true. I...So many of the blog comments ring so very true. I hope the sister means this stunt to be a marketing ploy to create a moment of fame for herself and if she finds Mr. Right in the process all is good but if she doesn't life happily goes on.<BR/>www.deliveringonthepromise.com/rcvmooreAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-29272001743733113122009-01-07T18:38:00.000-05:002009-01-07T18:38:00.000-05:00LOLThanks BIG Brutha Almighty! (smile)LOL<BR/>Thanks BIG Brutha Almighty! (smile)L. Renee'https://www.blogger.com/profile/04288745543106076462noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-70465140822329615692009-01-07T17:18:00.000-05:002009-01-07T17:18:00.000-05:00@ jaded santanaactually i DO know a cop who could ...@ jaded santana<BR/>actually i DO know a cop who could do that. but i think it's only for the state of georgia<BR/><BR/>i see you over there playing devil's advocate. lol!!! you know i don't mind.12kylehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11639316610856750674noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-84341577129677486782009-01-07T17:16:00.000-05:002009-01-07T17:16:00.000-05:00Oh, and she also said her window to have her "own ...Oh, and she also said her window to have her "own family" was closing so she needs to act now. Which is true; just cuz Madonna had a baby at 500 years old, doesn't mean it works for everybody LOL<BR/><BR/>Her eggs are now 42 years old and less viable by the day. her clock is TICK TOCK TICK TOCK and to ppl who actually want to have a baby of their own, that's important to consider.<BR/><BR/>Didn't mean to take up her cause or anything, just, one of my many talents is seeing things from all angles and then playing Devil's Advocate... and harassing you! lolThe Jaded NYerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12984061987021416142noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-42431362209176438302009-01-07T17:14:00.000-05:002009-01-07T17:14:00.000-05:00re: screening... well, let's just hope she's smart...re: screening... well, let's just hope she's smart about it and does background checks. I do them all the time... $14.95 a pop or you can purchase a subscription for just a lil bit more.<BR/><BR/>Or, you know, know a cop who'll look ppl up for you *innocent smile*The Jaded NYerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12984061987021416142noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-8830016451595340112009-01-07T17:10:00.001-05:002009-01-07T17:10:00.001-05:00@ LHaaaaaaa!!!! U crazy!!!@ Rashan Jamal Looks lik...@ L<BR/>Haaaaaaa!!!! U crazy!!!<BR/><BR/>@ Rashan Jamal <BR/>Looks like she's determined to kiss a lotta frogs just to get to that prince!<BR/><BR/>@ Jaded Santana<BR/>I read that too. Here's my interpretation...they said that she is "trying a new approach". Well, I call that internet pimpin ya self. That's dangerous in 2009. I wonder who is gonna screen these dudes? <BR/><BR/>@ Flyyest<BR/>Thanks! Welcome back! You've been missed<BR/><BR/>@ Sexxy Luv<BR/>LMAO!!! That's 20 yrs away, right? LOL12kylehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11639316610856750674noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-15438803399643819222009-01-07T17:10:00.000-05:002009-01-07T17:10:00.000-05:00@ ODI think it'll be more than entertaining for he...@ OD<BR/>I think it'll be more than entertaining for her. I hope she's not overwhelmed.<BR/><BR/>@ xcentricgem<BR/>You are funny! LOL. Good points, tho. Most men her age are trying to "buy" young chicks. They'll take their six figure and become sugar daddys!<BR/><BR/>@ Beautifully.Conjured.Up <BR/>I agree. I hope she finds love but i don't think this is gonna work. I think she'll wake up and realize that she wasted a year of her life<BR/><BR/>@ Smarty Jones<BR/>Bounty hunter! LMAO!!! You are stoooopid! I feel you, tho. Its funny how women have the images of weddings and marriage instilled in their heads at an early age. It doesn't happen like that for us.<BR/><BR/>@ LRenee<BR/>Your husband is the exception! I can honestly say that I knew a few of your husbands blind dates...none compare to you!! That's why he had to snatch you up...QUICK! LOL!!!12kylehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11639316610856750674noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-10473677691294081122009-01-07T17:09:00.001-05:002009-01-07T17:09:00.001-05:00@ dessexi know a dude who rushed into marriage. i ...@ dessex<BR/>i know a dude who rushed into marriage. i asked him "are you ready for this?" he said that he thought so. well, he was married and year later he was divorced.<BR/><BR/>@ keisha the kitten<BR/>Nuffin left to say but Aaaaaaamen!<BR/><BR/>@ Ra<BR/><I>"You can't discover the true psycho in a person in a year."</I> That is sooooo true! Nowadays...you just never know if people are who they say they are. <BR/><BR/>@ Queen<BR/>I agree. And we <B>all</B> got a lil bit of crazy in us, don't we? LOL<BR/><BR/>@ PCD<BR/>No doubt.12kylehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11639316610856750674noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-6229916116251001352009-01-07T17:09:00.000-05:002009-01-07T17:09:00.000-05:00@ clnmikeI couldn't have said it better myself, br...@ clnmike<BR/>I couldn't have said it better myself, bruh!<BR/><BR/>@ jaded santana<BR/>is it a bad thing to be single at 42? i mean, society puts pressure on folks to make them feel like they should have a spouse, car, house, 2.4 kids by the age of 35. that makes no sense. <BR/><BR/>@ MzInspiredMind81 <BR/>i feel you. i, too, want to be married for 60yrs. till death do us part<BR/><BR/>@ Angel <BR/>right! it's like "pimpin' ya self" <BR/><BR/>@ boredntalkative<BR/>very desparate12kylehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11639316610856750674noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-39832693448263987032009-01-07T16:58:00.000-05:002009-01-07T16:58:00.000-05:00let me get 42 and be single.let me get 42 and be single.Sexxy Luvhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14570801991117260817noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-1299784148337742932009-01-07T16:56:00.000-05:002009-01-07T16:56:00.000-05:00off the domes.....loves it!!!!!!!!!!!!!off the domes.....loves it!!!!!!!!!!!!!The Flyyesthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06210411477689239417noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-58707583778285432182009-01-07T15:34:00.000-05:002009-01-07T15:34:00.000-05:00I just went on her site, and the about me states:"...I just went on her site, and the about me states:<BR/><BR/>"Neenah doesn't consider herself a desperate single, but she does understand that at this point in her life, the odds of having a family of her own are against her. Where conventional methods have failed, Neenah decided to try a new approach to finding a husband."<BR/><BR/>I just thought I'd include that in the comments because some people seem to be judging her so harshly, and on the site she specifically says "Prospective Husband" so she's going into this looking for a LTR, and I think it's fair to state that upfront so dudes know what's up.<BR/><BR/>After viewing her site, I really have to hand it to her- she's really putting herself out there and being proactive about her happiness.<BR/><BR/>Still, I wouldn't do it... but ask me again if I'm still single in 10 years! lolThe Jaded NYerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12984061987021416142noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-1904165699363058172009-01-07T15:24:00.000-05:002009-01-07T15:24:00.000-05:00Sounds like someone who just needs some attention ...Sounds like someone who just needs some attention to me. She can't realistically expect that in a year. It can happen, but not when she's dating untold amounts of men trying to find her prince.Rashan Jamalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11447218849690603151noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-42809047723406093632009-01-07T12:22:00.000-05:002009-01-07T12:22:00.000-05:00Hey Kyle.This woman probably was feeling lonely du...Hey Kyle.<BR/>This woman probably was feeling lonely during the holidays seeing people together and sharing special memories. At this point, she is feeling desperate. I'm sure by now the majority of her friends are married with kids. That can put alot of pressure on a woman. In my case, I met my husband through a blind date. Which, I vowed I would never do. But, said what the hell anyway. We dated for 6 months. He proposed, and 6 months later we were married exactly on our one year anniversary of dating. It could happen. We have been happily married for 8 years. Never, say never.L. Renee'https://www.blogger.com/profile/04288745543106076462noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-63727400773315529662009-01-07T11:49:00.000-05:002009-01-07T11:49:00.000-05:00What's up with all my blogging buds and the marria...What's up with all my blogging buds and the marriage question this week?<BR/>I think she just got impatient and has taken matters in to her own hands. It makes me wonder what else she's become impatient about.<BR/>We've all heard the statistics about black women getting married and they are flat out depressing.<BR/>She's being proactive, you gotta applaud her effort, even if you don't agree with her actions.<BR/>It's hard for a woman to be alone especially when pop culture and your family paint you as incomplete if you're without a man and/or children.<BR/>Personally, I don't agree with her actions. I think she's become too impatient. I have to wonder about her religious background.<BR/>I say that to say that the Bible states, "He that findeth a wife, finds a good thing ..." Now that may not mean much to a lot of folks, but that means I'm not supposed to be looking because my husband is supposed to be looking for me.<BR/>I'm not over here living a nun's life, but I ain't no damn bounty hunter either. If I'm meant to be a man's wife and the mother of his children, it's going to happen in God's time, not mine.<BR/>As for spending more time on the wedding than the marriage, blame Disney.<BR/>All those damn princess stories that we read as little girls and watch in the movies all make it seem like you're going to find your prince charming and have the wedding you've been dreaming about since you were five.<BR/>It's hard to let go of something you've held onto since you were five. I'm not saying that it's right, I'm saying that's what happens.<BR/>Fortunately for me (or unfortunately), I'm a little bit wary of marriage anyway. It is the No. 1 cause of divorce, why not eliminate it? It's breaking up families! LoLTiffany S. Joneshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09564533523575614747noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-28416204080756274772009-01-07T11:39:00.000-05:002009-01-07T11:39:00.000-05:00Hmmmmm...what you would do for love...I'm not walk...Hmmmmm...what you would do for love...<BR/><BR/>I'm not walking in her shoes, so I can't imagine how she is feeling, but I do think this is the wrong way to go; simply because people lie too much to find someone via the internet. Then you have to deal with all of these psychos.<BR/><BR/>In the end, I hope she finds love, but I don't know about this.Beautifully.Conjured.Uphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07406790625325877853noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-13214052315410126192009-01-07T11:24:00.000-05:002009-01-07T11:24:00.000-05:0042 ... I understand her urgency ... She's probably...42 ... I understand her urgency ... She's probably accomplished everything else ... Career, Home and all other MATERIAL things ... however, there is no greater void than the absence of true love...<BR/><BR/>Is she going about it the wrong way?... Maybe ... Hell, it worked for Lisa Hartwell on Housewives of Atlanta ... she married after 1 month and 23 days ... <BR/><BR/>Would it work for me ... Nah... not my style ... But, she is on her way to her 15 minutes of fame ... in a few months she could publish this experience and be a NY times Best seller ... I applaud her for going after what she wants ... <BR/><BR/>There is no misery greater than lonliness unless its with being with someone and still being lonely...something she really needs to consider ... Unfortunately, she is at an age where the men in her age group are entering the 'mid-life' crisis ... and if they are single.. they are looking for 20's and early 30's ... so her choices are getting extremely low ... I think she was shopping in the mall with me when we should have been in the boutiques !!!<BR/><BR/>Totally agree that she may be going about it the wrong way ... but ... there comes a point in ur life when u realize there's a great possibility that you have more years behind u than u have in front of ya .... so her urgency I understand ... the odds are stacking against her by the minute. <BR/><BR/>This topic has caused me to reflect on some of the choices that I have made relationship wise and ... If I could have an outta body experience and kick my own ass .. I would .... <BR/><BR/>Thanks 12... LOLAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-7519111186270495932009-01-07T11:10:00.000-05:002009-01-07T11:10:00.000-05:00I think she's crazy. If you haven't found him in ...I think she's crazy. If you haven't found him in 42 years, you're not going to just miraculously find him in a year. I also think she's opening herself to all kinds of crazies that prey on the desperation of older women.<BR/><BR/>It should make for an entertaining year for her though.Jazzyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01186973972482369982noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-55911572427292213702009-01-07T11:04:00.000-05:002009-01-07T11:04:00.000-05:00desparation at its finest...desparation at its finest...PCD (Pretty Circle Drawer)https://www.blogger.com/profile/03841214220651965401noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-79436560023056283032009-01-07T10:17:00.000-05:002009-01-07T10:17:00.000-05:00Just saw the title. CuteJust saw the title. CuteQueen of My Castlehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09733155605753992587noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-35023387254467861592009-01-07T10:16:00.000-05:002009-01-07T10:16:00.000-05:00I agree with Ra. It takes about a year and a half ...I agree with Ra. It takes about a year and a half before you even start truly scratching the surface of the other party's TRUE identity. I understand her plight for wanting to be married, but heck, sometimes being single trumps marriage for some people.Queen of My Castlehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09733155605753992587noreply@blogger.com