tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post1494795779386752931..comments2023-10-30T05:32:20.748-04:00Comments on 12th Planet: 25 to life12kylehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11639316610856750674noreply@blogger.comBlogger36125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-30060142958289083512008-08-15T15:20:00.000-04:002008-08-15T15:20:00.000-04:00I actually don't know how he would respond.......b...I actually don't know how he would respond.......but I'm gonna annoy him and ask him these questions over the weekend.......LOLlaughing808https://www.blogger.com/profile/17401399607667620034noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-9763347996296078692008-08-15T00:05:00.000-04:002008-08-15T00:05:00.000-04:00@ dessexgood work bruhi can't lie. your response t...@ dessex<BR/>good work bruh<BR/><BR/>i can't lie. your response to # 19 made me think of Bernie Mac<BR/><BR/>@ L<BR/>LMAO @ u!!! U r soooo crazy!!!<BR/><BR/>@ Ms Moore<BR/>Good points. You gotta be committed to stay committed<BR/><BR/>@ LRenee<BR/><B>heyyyyyyyyy!!!!!</B> you are sooo right. it is what you make it. btw...i'm stealing one of your old posts for tomorrow's blog. heehehe<BR/><BR/>@ Ms Jones<BR/>I think the financial aspect is very key. You are correct.<BR/><BR/>@ PrettyBlack<BR/>AMEN!! Nuff said<BR/><BR/>@ ShellyShell<BR/>SMH @ 5 kids. This is 2008 not 1968! LMAO!!!<BR/><BR/>@ The F$%K it List<BR/>Go head and have a girl. Complete the set<BR/><BR/>@ -1-<BR/>3 hrs is not an addiction...it's a small habit. lol.12kylehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11639316610856750674noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-60718176715103365072008-08-14T23:06:00.000-04:002008-08-14T23:06:00.000-04:00an addiction to video games is a no-go for mei jus...an addiction to video games is a no-go for me<BR/><BR/>i just cant<BR/><BR/>-1-i.can't.complain.https://www.blogger.com/profile/13341752524747137677noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-13492326843798647262008-08-14T22:33:00.000-04:002008-08-14T22:33:00.000-04:00No I never wanted kids. We talked about trying onc...No I never wanted kids. We talked about trying once and I just never committed to it. Now that CJ is here I realize that it was always in me to be a mom. <BR/><BR/>As for room for a girl, there's only room in this house for one Queen. hahah. The Mr. wants a girl though so I'll just say its open for discussion.The F_Uitlisthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05537743664312801916noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-2176332901400060782008-08-14T22:32:00.000-04:002008-08-14T22:32:00.000-04:00Kyle,The inlaw(mama)wasn't the reason we didn't ma...Kyle,<BR/>The inlaw(mama)wasn't the reason we didn't make it down the aisle. At the end of the day we were fundamentally different! He really wanted five kids and I wanted two and that was stretching it...lol! It caused strain amongst other things! He's a good dude though and anyone who gets him as a husband should be blessed that she met someone so wonderful.ShellyShellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15682361206569478514noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-73235700310950832672008-08-14T21:13:00.000-04:002008-08-14T21:13:00.000-04:00Those are the types of questions that shouldn't be...Those are the types of questions that shouldn't be imposed on someone, but moreso figured out over time. They are relevant but these are all things you should know before getting engaged...hell before getting to serious.PrettyBlackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10165266284046402228noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-30796238105693811602008-08-14T21:04:00.000-04:002008-08-14T21:04:00.000-04:00I think that those are excellent questions to ask ...I think that those are excellent questions to ask BEFORE marriage especially because why waste time going through a divorce if it can be avoided...the answer to most of those questions could be deal breakers for the masses! My fav are the financial and religious ones...very important details that some overlook because they are so in love lolMs. Go Getterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01616535431829647234noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-77595398881181092352008-08-14T19:46:00.000-04:002008-08-14T19:46:00.000-04:00These are all very good questions.You need to ask ...These are all very good questions.<BR/>You need to ask these questions inorder to get pass the surface and really get to know the core of the person you think is the "ONE".<BR/>Marriage is what you make it. It's a lifetime investment.L. Renee'https://www.blogger.com/profile/04288745543106076462noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-39238838141376606352008-08-14T19:36:00.000-04:002008-08-14T19:36:00.000-04:00All of these questions are very good. And 2 peopl...All of these questions are very good. And 2 people getting married should know how their mate feels about each. The only problem I see in this scenario is that people grow and their ideals change. I guess if couples grow apart in different directions that's when seperation and/or divorce happens. How does a couple handle staying together and being committed to each other) when they grow apart?<BR/>www.deliveringonthepromise.com/rcvmooreAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-32774879284383436922008-08-14T19:23:00.000-04:002008-08-14T19:23:00.000-04:00if a muthafucka i was on a date with started askin...if a muthafucka i was on a date with started asking me these questions, i'd get up and run for the door. but, these are good questions for after the situation starts getting more serious, and definitely before you tie the knot....they call me "L"https://www.blogger.com/profile/11619647479798583176noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-20138402695253134722008-08-14T18:25:00.000-04:002008-08-14T18:25:00.000-04:00I guess I will be the only one to answer all of th...I guess I will be the only one to answer all of the questions. This post got me thinking....<BR/><BR/>Work Questions<BR/><BR/>1. Right now I’m shelving books at borders<BR/><BR/>2. 40<BR/><BR/>3. Marketing<BR/><BR/>4.I’m not sure yet<BR/><BR/>5. Putting books on a shelf <BR/>Money Questions<BR/><BR/>6. Too damn low<BR/><BR/>7. Yes….HELL YES<BR/><BR/>8. Sallie Mae<BR/><BR/>9. It would be a good thing<BR/><BR/>10. yes and no….I want to make sure that I’m happy<BR/>Sex Questions<BR/><BR/>11. I love sex…and I’m a man so I love head lol…<BR/><BR/>12.Do you feel comfortable initiating sex? Yes…women need their fix just like men. <BR/><BR/>13.Just a sexy woman….Maxwell will help too<BR/><BR/>14. at least 3 to 4 times in a week if I’m in a committed relationship. Like now<BR/><BR/>15. I think so<BR/><BR/>Parenthood Questions<BR/><BR/>16. I want kids maybe two, when I can afford it to take care of child…that’s when I will have one. <BR/><BR/>17. Yes…I can see what it has done for me. <BR/><BR/>18. not that important personally.<BR/><BR/>19. Whoop a kid’s ass….if need be. That timeout shit don’t work.<BR/><BR/>20. I think there is naturally a double standard. I would want my kids to be safe about sex. <BR/><BR/>Religion Questions<BR/><BR/>21. Yes I do. <BR/><BR/>22. I go to a church that is Non denominational. I believe in the God and his Son. <BR/><BR/>23. Nope me and my woman go to the same church . <BR/><BR/>24. very important… a couple that prays together stays together.<BR/><BR/>25. extremely vital.dessexhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12116249563620887215noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-52794115489739959172008-08-14T17:18:00.001-04:002008-08-14T17:18:00.001-04:00@ kandi blackI agree. You gotta factor in the baby...@ kandi black<BR/>I agree. You gotta factor in the baby mamas nowadays.<BR/><BR/>@ shellyshell<BR/>LMAO @ long road to cooldom!!! I hope the in-laws weren't the reason that it didn't work.<BR/><BR/>@ anonymous<BR/>I would hope that it wouldn't take long for you to realize that you're dealing with a sorry SOB<BR/><BR/>@ ceecee<BR/>Welcome to the <B>12th Planet.</B> Make sure that you come back. We have a good time over here. We're here every day like the school bully<BR/><BR/>excellent points!!! i totally agree. love the bank account analogy <BR/><BR/>@ Beautifully.Conjured.Up <BR/>Fa sho!!! Mental health is very important. We don't seem to think on those lines alot but we should.<BR/><BR/>@ B<BR/>I think you should really do that. A man who has nuffin to hide will answer them honestly. If he's running game, you'll know. <BR/><BR/>@ Sexxy Luv<BR/>Get it together...now!!! LMAO!!!! <BR/><BR/>betta call -Q. <BR/><BR/>haaaa12kylehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11639316610856750674noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-86829594991258566152008-08-14T17:18:00.000-04:002008-08-14T17:18:00.000-04:00@ PCDI totally feel you. I used to call my in-laws...@ PCD<BR/>I totally feel you. I used to call my in-laws...the out-laws. LOL. Sometimes they can really cause problems. My in-laws are cool, tho<BR/><BR/>@ The F$%K it List<BR/>Really? You're such a caring mother. I thought that you always wanted to be a mommy. Are y'all done? Is there room for a lil girl?<BR/><BR/><BR/>@ Rich<BR/>Good points! I think that these are the questions that help you with your attraction to the other person<BR/><BR/>@ Keith<BR/>Aw man! You took me back with the word <B>courting.</B> I haven't heard that in years. But i heard it a lot when i was growing up. <BR/><BR/>nothing worse than waking up "surprised"<BR/><BR/>@ -1-<BR/>great questions, sis. now...i do have an issue with #5. lmao!!! what if he says yes????<BR/><BR/>@ PWB<BR/>That is very true. Sometimes your spouse/mate may do something and you will forgive them...but your family won't. <BR/><BR/>@ Kay C, The Quiet Storm<BR/><I>"People will show you who they are, it is up to you to believe them.</I> AMEN!!! Sometimes the writing is on the wall but we choose to ignore it12kylehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11639316610856750674noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-49081052372555019852008-08-14T16:44:00.000-04:002008-08-14T16:44:00.000-04:00I don't have a man! I don't wanna talk about relat...I don't have a man! I don't wanna talk about relationships, marriage or any of that other stuff! it just makes me think of SEX!!!!!! lol <BR/><BR/>(i know i need to get it together)Sexxy Luvhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14570801991117260817noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-52989674285870199662008-08-14T16:27:00.000-04:002008-08-14T16:27:00.000-04:00LOL @ I Can't Complain's questions:1. how bad is y...LOL @ I Can't Complain's questions:<BR/><BR/>1. how bad is your credit<BR/><BR/>2. how many crazy babymama's do u have<BR/><BR/><BR/>I co-sign on those. Seriously. I think these questions are absolutely necessary to ask. Forget asking. Next time I meet a potential I'm going to just print these out and have them write in answers. Any Discrepancies get the DENIED stamp.Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11902839629217130433noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-33710653730375310052008-08-14T16:09:00.000-04:002008-08-14T16:09:00.000-04:00Its funny, yet true. I wouldn't mind being asked t...Its funny, yet true. <BR/><BR/>I wouldn't mind being asked these questions, and I would hope he would answer them as well. Before you go into any situation, you should know what you're getting into...the good as well as the bad.<BR/><BR/>One topic that I think couples should start taking seriously is health, especially mental health. A lot of different health defects are biological and passed down, and people need to look into that. People should get to know the psychological history/actions that have taken place in their partner's family before they start creating a new generation.Beautifully.Conjured.Uphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07406790625325877853noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-31033915956898056112008-08-14T14:34:00.000-04:002008-08-14T14:34:00.000-04:00Marriage is like a bank account.You deposit good t...Marriage is like a bank account.<BR/>You deposit good things you accrue good things. If you keep depleting without adding anything to it is overdrawn. Eventually just like any good bank your account is CLOSED! Marriage is not one-sided.<BR/>It takes two people to nurture it. <BR/>If you add kids to the equation..you really have to work overtime. It is not going to run itself. If you rely on your mate too much to hold the marriage down while you sit around and do nothing. Then the mate will become resentful and abandoned. Eventually, they might decide since they are doing it all on their own anyway..Why the hell do they need you? Change your attitude,communicate with your mate. It just might save your marriage from becoming a statistic.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-85808742998635170292008-08-14T14:21:00.000-04:002008-08-14T14:21:00.000-04:00I think the most important thing in a relationship...I think the most important thing in a relationship is Honesty. Show me who you really are not who you think I want to you to be. If you are a lazy, trifling SOB. Let me find that out in the beginning. When you hide your true self, the real you is not the person I fell in-love with. It is not fair for me to commit the rest of my life to someone that I wasn't given the opportunity to really know. If you are truly committed in a relationship then you are suppose to love that person like God loves the church. Now..that is some serious loving. If you expect me to be everything you need then why should I expect anything less from you. Show me that you want to fight for us. Step up!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-54433818029957469782008-08-14T13:24:00.000-04:002008-08-14T13:24:00.000-04:00These are great questions but I think in the court...These are great questions but I think in the courting process you would get the majority of the answers. BE ON THE LOOKOUT FOR INLAWS! On my way to the aisle I had to deal with that. But shyt didn't work out for he and I but I'm still cool with the mama! LOL! But it was a lonnnnnnng road to cooldom!ShellyShellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15682361206569478514noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-67777948037793033152008-08-14T13:13:00.000-04:002008-08-14T13:13:00.000-04:00Those seem like some pretty thorough questions to ...Those seem like some pretty thorough questions to ask...i like -1-'s list too...especially the number of baby mama's cuz niggas round my way be racking em up...i aint tryna play step mama to the cheaper by the dozen clanKandi Blackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16024706089150025444noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-88338242473216001702008-08-14T11:45:00.000-04:002008-08-14T11:45:00.000-04:00I have to agree with Rich on most of these items s...I have to agree with Rich on most of these items should come up while you are dating. But let's get real...how many people actually <I>date</I> in this day and age?<BR/><BR/>We all say we want XYZ but are we willing to put in the work (or restraint) to get it? Most of us are not, but complain when the ish hits the fan.<BR/><BR/>I would fall into the category that Keith asked about. Yes, I was courted and found out the answers to my questions. But people say they want XYZ and when they get it, they aren't so sure they want it anymore. Such was my case.<BR/><BR/>People will show you who they are, it is up to you to believe them.KayC, The Quiet Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04906296213022463052noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-21875015816086120882008-08-14T11:00:00.000-04:002008-08-14T11:00:00.000-04:00Great questions!Amen to PCD's comments on in-laws....Great questions!<BR/><BR/>Amen to PCD's comments on in-laws. Keep them (and your family too) out of your business!Phyllis Bournehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14159964500693902500noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-27824606396617192752008-08-14T10:37:00.000-04:002008-08-14T10:37:00.000-04:00if i ever get close to marriage(again)my questions...if i ever get close to marriage(again)<BR/><BR/>my questions will be<BR/><BR/>1. how bad is your credit<BR/><BR/>2. how many crazy babymama's do u have<BR/><BR/>3. which one might i have to cut<BR/><BR/>4. can u cook and do u enjoy doing so?<BR/><BR/>5. do u spend more than 3 hrs a week playing video games?<BR/><BR/>6. what is your definition of "me-time"<BR/><BR/>7. do you love me<BR/><BR/>plus all the questions u posted.<BR/><BR/>-1-i.can't.complain.https://www.blogger.com/profile/13341752524747137677noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-21728089930123547072008-08-14T10:25:00.000-04:002008-08-14T10:25:00.000-04:00I have often wondered when I've heard that someone...I have often wondered when I've heard that someone's marriage or<BR/>relationship has ended or soured just what did the two people talk about when they were "courting"?<BR/><BR/>It seems people talk about everything but the important things that you brought up in your post...Then one day they wake up and they're "surprised"<BR/><BR/> Nobody should exchange rings, say vows in front of people, have a ceremony that they are still paying for months afterwords and be<BR/>"surprised" but it happens all the time.Keithhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17325582825431855883noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6813540610750501617.post-10641728188035066702008-08-14T09:25:00.000-04:002008-08-14T09:25:00.000-04:00In my opinion, if you are truly dating and not jus...In my opinion, if you are truly dating and not just getting between the sheets you will know all of this because it will come up in the course of getting to know one another. All these questions will be answered over the course of time, which in most respects is what keeps the relationship moving forward because you realize that this person shares a similar outlook to yours on issues that really matter.Rich Fitzgeraldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02402320643799892517noreply@blogger.com