Wednesday, July 20, 2011


Tune in to 12 RADIO tonight at 9PM EST. 12 RADIO is the BEST and most interactive show on BlogTalkRadio.


co-hosted by MzInspiredMind

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We'll be covering topics like...

1. Is weed addictive?

2. Do you have any addictions?

3. Sex additction. Is there really such a thing? If so, how do you treat it?

Tuesday, July 19, 2011

the scar

Look at her. There she goes. Do you see her scar?

It's not anything that can be seen from afar.

You need to be close to get a good look

Her past haunted her like a horror film or a Stephen King book

Things aren't what they should be. Yet, she doesn't know why

She remembers those nights in bed when she would just lay there and cry

Not sure when the tears would stop but she felt the pain

Ever since she was a teen, she was always made to feel bad

People told her she'd never do anything good in life. It was truly sad

She didn't let it stop her from doing what she wanted to do

She had goals, ideas, and visions that she was determined to see through

Then, things changed.

Got strange

Was it the day when she was 17 and she went out with Roy on a date?

That was the night she told him 'NO' but he didn't stop and proceeded for the rape

Was it the day that her momma caught her in a lie?

She was supposed to go to school but instead she stayed at home and got high

Weed in the air and beer by the kegs

She woke up with her panties around her legs

What happened in that room? She didn't have a clue

All she remembers was it was her and 3 dudes.

Ten years have passed and she's just happy to be alive

She's 27. Never had a man. And she can't tell you why.

There have been men in her life who have came and went

In her mind, she's still waiting on the dude that is heaven sent

She knows how to use her body to get sex

But that's all she's ever gotten and she knows what's next

Unanswered text messages and phone calls

They made her feel like a used rag doll.

She's now at a critical point in her life

Hoping that a man will make her his wife

She knows nothing about commitment and it shows

The people on the street say "you can't marry a hoe"

Is that what she is? Just because she can't keep a man?

Does it matter if she's had several one night stands?

Sex on the first date? No problem for this woman

She can "do it" like nobody else can.

The problem with her is that she uses sex like a gun

She no longer even considers it to be real fun

It's just something to do while she's passing the time

Something she's excelled at no matter his game or lines

She thinks she's winning. And she'll find a all cost

In reality, she's a good girl gone bad. A Black Girl Lost.

Sunday, July 17, 2011


Never be too consumed or wrapped up to take the time to tell people that you love them...

by Stevie Wonder

When was the last time
That they heard you say
Mother or father, I love you
And when was the last time
That they heard you say
Daughter or son, I love you

Ones you say you cherish everyday
Can instantly be taken away
Then you'd say I know this can't be true
When you never took the time
To simply tell them "I love you"

When was the last time
That they heard you say
Sister or brother, I love you
And when was the last time
That they heard you say
Darling or best friend, I love you

The one for whom you'd give your very life
Could be taken in the twinkling of an eye
Through you tears you'd ask why did you go
Knowing you didn't always show
Just how much you loved them so


Wednesday, July 13, 2011


Welcome to 12 RADIO. An interactive, progressive radio show. Tune in to 12 RADIO tonight at 9PM EST.

12 RADIO is the BEST and most interactive show on BlogTalkRadio.


Co-hosted by CRecks & Eclectik


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We'll be covering a few topics like...

1. If you had to make a list of underrated MCs/rappers, who'd make your list?

2. Who embodies what YOU define as hip hop?

3. What hip hop song rocked the parties when you were in high school?



Gotta love it!

Monday, July 11, 2011

privacy please

Y'all know me. You read this blog. You follow me on the twitter (@12kyle). You know me from Facebook. You listen to 12 Radio every Wed night at 9pm EST.

You don't know me.

Actually, both statements are true.

From reading this blog, you can assume certain level of education, social economic status, level of intelligence, and some general personality traits. Even though we've never met, you feel like you know me. I'm a cool dude. The kinda dude you'd wanna hang out with. Well, that is true! I am THAT guy!

In being everything that you think I might be, I'm also a very private person. I am extremely careful about what say on this blog and in my tweets. While I would never make up lies or be someone who I'm not, I do believe that everything that happens in my life isn't for public consumption. SOME things need to be kept for yourself. We live in a era of reality tv and overexposure. I'm a firm believer that everybody doesn't need to know everything. So, the woman who tweets/blogs about all of her sexual conquests may think she's "keepin it real" but she'll be perceived as a ho. The dude who tweets/blogs about all the time about BS is perceived as a jerk with no life/social skills.

Some may say you can't control one's perception of you but if you VOLUNTEER information about can control the info that you give out. Is it being paranoid? I don't think so. I just think we should all have a filter. We have to understand that once you press SEND or ENTER, it's for the world to see. That may not mean as much to others as it does to me.

Just be careful about what you say because you don't know who's reading it. And once you say it, you can't control how it's received or disseminated.

Friday, July 8, 2011

off tha dome

random thoughts...

i haven't blogged in a minute. i just realized that.

looks like my girlfriend is about to come back to me. i can't wait to see her!

i read the cheating scandal that took place in the Atlanta Public School System. one principal told teachers to change the standardized test scores because "the kids are dumb as hell." whut da hell?

gotta thank my boy D for the music he sent me. my inbox has been flooded

Casey Anthony got away with murder. but she still has to answer to HIM

good to see Prez O on the twitter. maybe he'll hit me up. i've got some ideas on health care reform

some things...some people...aren't meant to be understood. stop trying.

did you see that dust storm that hit Phoenix the other day? crazy!

we start football practice for Kameron's 8 and under football team next week. the temperature is supposed to be 97 degrees. great!

i can't go in Best Buy "just to look around"

fellas...let your woman have the last word. that's the only way you'll get her to be quiet. lol

ladies...let your man THINK he's in control...even when he's not

i still haven't decided on a name for our unborn daughter. if you knew some of the suggestions that i've gotten, you'd laugh your ass off.

three places that i must visit before i die...russia aka the soviet union (or whatever they call it nowadays), miami, las vegas. never been to any of these places but i will make it there!

i don't think we're gonna see any more NBA games for a loooooong time!

cant't believe ENTOURAGE is coming to an end. Season 8 starts on July 24th

make sure that you plan for the marriage and NOT the wedding. most weddings last only 25 mins. but this marriage thang...

i skipped the E-B-T awards. but i DID see a clip of Alexander O'Neal on stage. mannnnn, he looked like a ROCK STAR. like he was fresh off a few good rocks!

i need to take piano lessons.

i remember a few times when i was teen when i didn't wash the dishes and my mom woke me up at THREE O'CLOCK in the morning just to wash the dishes!

coca-cola > pepsi


Wednesday, July 6, 2011


Welcome to 12 RADIO. An interactive, progressive radio show. Tune in to 12 RADIO every tonight at 9PM EST.

12 RADIO is the BEST and most interactive show on BlogTalkRadio.

TOPIC - For the FAM...Family Issues/Values...

co-hosted by Sweet Stiletto

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We'll be covering subjects like...

1. Did you have family chores growing up? What were they? Which was your least favorite?

2. How were holidays celebrated in your family? Did your family have special traditions?

3. Are the people in your family crazy?